Adolescence daughter is idolized, should I support her?

In fact, idolatry is a common behavior of every adolescent girl. As long as it is not excessive and parents can guide it correctly, they should not object. This is also a normal hobby.

1, there is no need to kill with a stick.

Many adolescent girls will have a stage of infatuation with stars, and some parents will have great rejection. Personally, I think this kind of thing is really unnecessary. After all, we were once young, experienced adolescence and liked so many stars. ?

I remember when I was in junior high school, I liked a singer very much and was fascinated by his voice. His clothes, especially his melancholy appearance, fascinate me. How's it going? I still need to study hard. Worship is just a part of my life. He can add salt to my life, but it doesn't have much impact.

So as a parent, there is no need to make a fuss at all. Don't make a fuss as long as she doesn't act excessively. If you object too much, it may be counterproductive.

2. Increase communication with children.

In their view, there is a generation gap between adolescent children and their parents and no one can understand them. They look a little withdrawn, and they are more silent when they are with their families. But if you think your child is withdrawn, you are wrong. If you observe the child's performance at school, she must have a good time with her classmates. This shows that there has been a generation gap between your children and you, or the distance between you has begun to appear.

What you have to do is not blindly oppose, blindly let the child understand himself, repeat different words every day, not to mention how hard you work, how ignorant she is, and so on. You should spend more time with your child, do what she likes, go shopping, or watch some variety shows she likes online with her, so that there will be no generation gap between you as far as possible.

You can even accompany her to idolize, so that you can know more about her favorite stars and have more topics to talk about.