The best way to spend the rest of your life: love yourself more. Do you know why?

Starting from tomorrow, I will be a happy person, chop wood and feed horses, and travel around the world ... Haizi described the rest of my life that countless people yearn for in plain language.

When I was a child, I always wanted to grow up quickly and have the power to fight against the world.

When I grow up, I understand that the resolution of all contradictions in life is not a sharp knife, but the simplest and warmest knife.

I have been persistent in my pursuit, and I have been lonely and confused, but please remember to love yourself more in the long road of the rest of my life.

Know how to control emotions, know how to maintain yourself, and know how to look down on fame and fortune. Perhaps the quiet years are the original taste of life.

And what we have to do is to enjoy these wonderful years, and that is to love ourselves more.

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Love yourself first, "I" is the most important.

In The Story of Hot Mom starring Sun Li, Xia Bing had to give up her job for the sake of her family and children.

Although she is a new wife and a novice mother, she is not good enough in taking care of the elderly and children.

But I also tried my best and paid a lot for my family.

But her husband filed for divorce because she didn't do well enough and didn't want to put up with it any longer.

Although film and television dramas show dramatic life, they reflect real life.

In life, like Xia Bing, our happiness and sadness are based on our partners and children. Many people don't have their own lives.

But after all, things are rare, and the value of things that are easy to get will be looked down upon by people.

If you love others wholeheartedly, you will never get the same degree of love, but it is natural to work hard in others' mouths.

Therefore, the premise of loving others should be to love yourself first.

This doesn't mean giving up your family, but when considering others, consider your own feelings first, and remember that love has three points for yourself.

Life is so precious, everyone is lonely, family and friends can't accompany us through life, only ourselves can accompany us forever.

Even if you are bound by life, the flower of freedom can't bloom at will, and don't abandon your once dazzling self and learn to be self-centered.

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You are the best of yourself.

There are too many scenic spots on the road of life. How many people and things you will meet in your life are countless.

We always know how to accept others and tolerate their shortcomings, but forget to accept all of ourselves.

Some people feel inferior all their lives, afraid of other people's eyes, and can only curl up in a dark corner and admire other people's style.

But there are no perfect people in the world, and each of us has become a special person because of the imperfect parts.

Confidence is the most beautiful. We can be better ourselves, but we don't have to change for whom, let alone worry about what we don't have.

Maybe there is no beautiful appearance, maybe there is no smart mind, these are not important, God has his own arrangements, and he will also prefer stupid children.

Face imperfections bravely and accept your own shortcomings. We are all the best of ourselves.

I will always fall in love with people who don't love me all my life, and I will fall in love with people who don't love me. These things go against my will and make up my whole life.

Learn to love yourself for the rest of your life, and love yourself more.

Willful, free and easy to see the scenery on the road, embrace that complete self, love everything in life, and do not waste the world we have been to.

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Don't embarrass yourself.

I remember a sentence:

There are two kinds of people after the heavy rain. One kind of people look up at the sky after the rain and see rainbows, blue sky and white clouds. Some people look down at the ground and see mud and water, which is difficult and desperate.

I feel different because I look at the problem from different angles. Life is not easy, so why bother yourself?

In fact, unhappiness is sometimes just a choice for us. If we can't afford something, we choose to let it go.

If you can't get it, you can also choose to give up; Give up if you can't figure it out; If you can't stay, let him leave.

"I'll do my best and leave it to fate", I've tried my best, so the ending may not be that important.

As long as we are alive, we should all work hard for our original dreams, but don't forget that everything is beginning to be happy.

Many things in life are beyond our choice. Since the final result is not satisfactory, letting go of obsession is also letting go of yourself.

Without a smooth life, if you want to live happily, you must learn to let go of things that may not belong to you.

The road of life is here, and the scenery is unique here. Take a break from your busy schedule and take a long vacation for yourself.

Without this world, everyone will continue to turn, the sun will rise as usual tomorrow, and it's time for us to start a new life.

Rest when you are tired, and cry when you are sad. No one has defined a standard life.

We don't have to wear adult rules all the time. As for not knowing how far the rest of your life is, let's start by loving ourselves more.