Soul mate: How to judge, meet and get along

When Xu Zhimo returned from studying in Cambridge and issued a divorce notice, he wrote: "I will visit my only soul mate in the vast sea of people;" I am lucky to get it; No, my life is like this. " Later, his pursuit of Lin was rejected, so he wrote a sad "accident" The last sentence: "The shining light of this meeting" reminds people of the lightning Shi Huo when soul mates meet.

With the increasing abundance of material, high-quality spiritual world has become people's pursuit. I often hear people mention soul mates. What's going on here? Have you met your soul mate? How to judge whether you are soul mates or not?

I knew nothing about this before. Occasionally, YouTube sent me a video of Tarot divination, which I think is quite interesting as a curious baby. After that, YouTube kept recommending related movies. ? After a few days of concentrated research, I also learned a little about it and shared it with you at the first time.

When it comes to practice, it is natural to avoid a topic: the relationship between people, especially the intimate relationship, is a subject that we must face in this life.

According to them, from the perspective of the fate of the soul, there are three relationships: karmic relationship, soul mate and twin flame.

In this article, I mainly introduce soul mates, because karmic relations are too common and twin flames are too rare. Soul mates are much more likely to appear than twin flames, and many people can clearly know that they have met their soul mates.

Causality:

As the name implies, the fate between us comes from the previous generation. Lovers in this life may be husband and wife, parents, relatives and friends in a previous life. The grudges made in that life will continue to be solved in this life. The relationship between the two sides may not necessarily improve spirituality, but may reduce spiritual energy. As long as it is not a soul mate or a twin flame, the rest of the intimate relationship is basically karma. It is not difficult to judge that it will not be expanded here.

Double flame:

The rarest. Not many people have twin flames, and it is rare to meet at the same time. Generally speaking, the twin flame is that the soul splits in two when it is born. If we can meet at the same time on earth, it may be the same sex or the opposite sex. Their experiences in this life all have certain characteristics, with similar interests and strong spiritual pursuit desire. Because I met my soul-missing half, once the twin flames meet, both sides will feel the shock of inner churning at the same time, not the attraction of hormones, but a feeling similar to sadness and tears of joy. Most people will have physical reactions, such as uncontrollable tears, sweating and palpitation. Both sides can get great spiritual improvement and maturity from this relationship. Because it is too rare, it is not discussed in this article.

Soul mate:

First, the concept of soul mate.

Soul mates come from the same family and have the same roots, so their souls are highly compatible, have high frequency, have great vibration, are attracted to each other, are harmonious in body and mind, and have the same values.

The internal characteristics of both sides are very similar, like specular reflection. Looking at each other is like seeing yourself in the mirror, especially the weakness and evil hidden in your heart and unknown to outsiders.

No matter what form the external relationship is, the essence is to get along with your own soul. The relationship between the two sides will lead each other to face the same topic, move towards the growth of the soul, and complete the task of the soul in this life.

? A person may have more than one soul mate, and may have different soul mates at different stages. There can be love or no love, and it can be various relationships, such as lovers, relatives and friends.

A soul mate without love is more like a bosom friend. Typical examples are Boya and hippo chefs. Only a hippopotamus chef can understand Boya's music in this way. After the death of his best friend, the one who loved Qin destroyed it.

Soul mates with love can be husband and wife, which is the most ideal situation, such as Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu, Wang Xiaobo and Li Yinhe. Of course, there are also people who can't be husband and wife, such as Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu. They are very touching and tangled, and no one can let go of anyone, that is, their souls attract each other.

Second, the characteristics of soul mates when they meet

1. Before meeting, the two sides were completely unexpected. The encounter happened strangely, as if they were pulled together by an invisible energy. They were not afraid of secular restrictions, such as gender, age and marriage. Many people will have a small probability of coincidence, such as the similarity of experience or family background, the association of birthdays, the rhyme of names or pen names, and so on.

When you meet or hear a voice for the first time, you will have a strong sense of familiarity. "Knowing Jun Chu is like going back to an old friend." As the American novelist Chandi Nelson explained to his soul mate:

"Meeting your soul mate is like walking into a house you have been to before-you will recognize the furniture, the paintings on the walls, the books on the shelves and the things in the drawers: if necessary, you can find your way in the dark." Meeting your soul mate is like walking into the house where you once lived. You know the furniture, the pictures on the wall, the books on the shelves and the things in the drawers. If you fall into darkness in this house, you can still walk freely. )

When they meet, there will be great sparks, and they will immediately have deep contact and trust. Even cautious people will suddenly become unsuspecting and immediately share their privacy, secrets and worries with each other.

You can naturally make intimate moves when you meet for the first time. I feel that my behavior is not in line with my previous style. Because the soul has recognized each other, and if the degree of integration of body and mind is not so high, the body and mind will be slower than the soul intuition.

Third, the characteristics of soul mates when they get along

1 Like ordinary couples, soul mates often have a "heart-to-heart" phenomenon. For example, after driving for a long time, you suddenly want to say that the front window is a little dirty. Words haven't export, the other party has turned on the wiper.

2. Getting along with soul mates will be accompanied by many collisions. Just because they are soul mates, they will awaken the wounds suppressed by the other party in the past and expose the life problems that have not been repaired, so they will bring pain, feel pressure, challenges, burdens and difficulties, and want to run, but they can't leave.

Nevertheless, on the whole, you will get more happiness than pain, and both sides will get spiritual growth in running-in.

In getting along, both sides should learn to understand and forgive. Because, to tolerate each other's good and bad is also to tolerate your own good and bad. The other person is like another self, and you are true love.

Although soul mates are attractive, they usually can't be together immediately or at all. Because the arrival of soul mates is not to find a partner, but to improve each other's consciousness, improve their ability to love each other and heal wounds.

6. Once self-healing is successful, it will be completely accepted. Even if we are destined not to be together, even if we don't have each other in our lives, it doesn't matter, because each other has no requirements for another person.

You still love each other, or you really wish each other well, but there are no more demands. It is unconditional love, and it is the sublimation of love. This is the topic and goal that soul mates need to face together after meeting in this life.

Fourth, how to find a soul mate?

Li Yinhe, the widow of writer Wang Xiaobo, is the first research-oriented female sociologist in China. Talking about how to find a soul mate, she said:

First, you should have a rich soul and a rich spiritual life. You can't expect to meet a rich and interesting soul mate if you live a boring life.

Second, you should have the ability to love. If a person does not love himself, it is impossible to love another person.

Third, you must be very lucky. Soul mates are actually rare. If you meet them, you must cherish them.

When I really meet my soul mate, I will definitely feel a brief encounter, even a little scared, and almost missed it. Most people in this world have lived all their lives, which is parallel to many people. You and your soul mate are a cross line. If you don't cherish this intersection, you are likely to miss it in the vast sea of people.

Five, the test method of soul mate

Zita Law, a Hong Kong writer, said in "Soul Ball" that soul mates often go through difficult tests after meeting, and finally they can make spiritual progress. The book introduces seven methods of testing soul mates, but I feel that the contents are all repetitive. I combined them into the following three types:

1. Will the other party make you a better and better person, and whether this relationship can make both parties play their best internal potential.

2. Whether the other person is like a mirror, which can reflect his own advantages and disadvantages;

3. Will two people have stronger energy together or make greater contribution to the world? Is it meaningful and valuable love?

Speaking of which, it should be clear what a soul mate is. If you are interested in testing whether you and the person you think are soul mates, you can try free online public tarot divination. I wonder if there is online divination in China? You can search a bunch on YouTube, and most of them are fortune tellers in Taiwan Province Province, so just pick your eyes and feel comfortable. Of course, the accuracy of one-on-one fee divination is definitely higher. Look around. Don't take it too seriously.

I am so curious about mysterious things that I have to try and have fun. I even found several different fortune tellers, and the measured results are quite consistent. I don't know if it is coincidence or destiny. It is said that my soul mate is a person with the following characteristics. Hurry around and see who is the most suitable, haha:

How's it going? What is your soul mate like? Did you meet? If the answer is yes, then congratulations, you are really lucky!

However, meeting is only the beginning, and the long road of practice is behind. I hope every soul mate can cherish each other and complete this life-long project together.

Also welcome to leave a message to share your story with your soul mate.

(The copyright of the pictures in this article belongs to the author. )