How to judge whether your mother-in-law is good to you?

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a sensitive topic, and it can also be said that it is the most difficult relationship to get along with. It is said that one mountain cannot accommodate two tigers, and as long as there are women, there will be struggles. So many concubines in the ancient harem calculated each other, wasn't it a complicated palace fight? Then how do you judge whether your mother-in-law is good to you?

The first is confinement, because confinement is the most difficult time for women. Women in this period were mentally and emotionally unstable and weak because they had just given birth. At this time, they need the care of others. If the mother-in-law can take good care of you and help take care of the baby, then such a mother-in-law must be right.

Second, it is financial help. Nowadays, two generations often have conflicts due to living habits and other reasons, so most of them live separately. Then the economy will naturally separate. If the young couple encounter financial difficulties in their daily lives, and her mother-in-law can generously give financial help, then she is really a good mother-in-law.

Third, a mother-in-law who doesn't speak ill of you behind your back must be a good mother-in-law. I have met the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in our community. They often sit together and study how to deal with their daughter-in-law. That's ridiculous. A clever mother-in-law always defends her daughter-in-law and complains about her son, because in a family, only when women are happy will they be harmonious and happy.

A mother-in-law who is really kind to you is generally reasonable, so you must know about the family behind the man before looking for someone. If the mother-in-law is smart, be careful. It is also important to find a partner, depending on personality and family atmosphere.