Little Shenyang 14-year-old daughter, accused of being too mature, charming in dress and full of amorous feelings. what do you think?

It is normal for children to like to dress up mature, which is a normal reflection of children's psychological changes. We should not demonize their behavior too much. Overreaction will make children rebellious and lead to the deterioration of children's behavior.

The lives of stars are always concerned, and their every move will be magnified. As public figures, they enjoy the fans, wealth and status brought by fame, but at the same time they lose their privacy and their every move is monitored. Sometimes a small move will attract accusations from netizens. And not only the stars themselves, but also their families are concerned by netizens. This is the case with Xiao Shenyang's daughter. Girls love beauty, the same age as flowers. Of course, they want to dress up beautifully.

Adolescent children begin to have their own aesthetics and pay attention to individuality. They envy the mature appearance of adults and like to dress themselves up and pretend that they have grown up. This is actually nothing more than a very normal thing. Children want to dress themselves up and pursue maturity, that's all. But there are always people who exaggerate this move infinitely and accuse girls of not being children. If you look closely, you will find that many adolescent children around you have this phenomenon.

What children need in adolescence is guidance, not guidance. Children will grow up and we will grow old. Every generation has its own ideas, some of which are right and some are wrong. Sometimes we suddenly find that children seem to be a different person overnight, start dressing up and say things we don't know. Congratulations, you have come to the most critical period of children's growth. When I was a child, I was like a wild horse. I only care about freedom and happiness and think nothing else, but as long as I train well, I can become an excellent horse.

The adolescent child is an arrogant wolf. They have their own thoughts, their own pride and their own pursuits. If a wolf is forcibly tamed, is it still a wolf? The harder you teach, the farther away he will be from you. Even if you bring him to heel by tough measures, he will never find his former high spirits again. Only by making the wolf a companion will he trust you. What adolescent children need more is the understanding and care of their parents. All we need to do is accompany them and guide them back to the right path in time. Don't run counter to your children, and don't wait until it's too late to regret it.

Internet is a double-edged sword. Internet is the best tool to get news and communicate with the outside world, but it brings a lot of negative news while providing convenience. Some adults are inevitable, not to mention immature children. Children's behavior is often influenced by online idols and some video concepts. They like to dress up mature, maybe they just want to be beautiful and imitate their idols. However, some people's malicious comments may cause indelible damage to children's minds. Talk about honesty and make the online world cleaner and better.

I don't think the mature dress of Xiao Shenyang's daughter should be demonized too much. As long as the guidance is proper, the child will not grow crooked. On the contrary, everyone should think about whether his words will cause more harm to others.