Now that my mother has left me, what should I do?

Fear of the future, I often think, that's because there is no clear goal, your mother's departure suddenly crushed you, and you feel that the future is boundless and life is unremarkable. At this time, you should set yourself a goal to get your life back on track.

The goal must be close, not too far, and must be able to land and execute. It is not impossible to achieve small goals in stages through hard work.

If you really can't find your goal for the time being, read more books and biographies of celebrities; Travel, see different scenery and experience different lives. In the process of walking and reading, reflect and find your own direction in life.

Generally speaking, you can take what interests you most as your life goal. Or, your childhood dreams can also be your life goals.

After the goal is determined, the next thing is to constantly improve your ability, so as to achieve the phased goal and gradually achieve the overall goal. Ability can only be realized if it is worthy of dreams. Otherwise, you will fall into panic and confusion.

At present, the best thing to do is to put down your mobile phone, look back at your heart and seriously reflect on yourself. Where are the advantages, how to strengthen them, how to develop them into your own advantages and make them an effective force to realize your life ideals.

Many people are afraid of the future because they don't have enough ability and can't earn much money, so we should learn more skills, get some objective income besides our work achievements, and give ourselves enough sense of security economically.

Finally, you must have your own circle of friends. Many people seldom get together with friends because of marriage or work. Slowly, except for colleagues and family, there is no one to talk to, but in fact, we should have our own circle of friends, so that when we are in a bad mood, some people enlighten us, others talk, and bring positive energy to ourselves when we are confused.