When you don't know how to choose, flip a coin!

? Emotional problems are often difficult to decide. A friend came to consult me. There are two suitors with good conditions recently. He doesn't know which to choose. Then I found that when I advised my friend to choose suitor A, he would say the benefits of suitor B; If I advise him to choose suitor B, he will be reluctant to part with suitor A. I want to help each other make a decision. What should I say?

As the saying goes: "This is really a question to consider! You must think it over. Let's analyze the advantages and disadvantages of A and B together. To put it better, "why don't you flip a coin?" "! Heads choose A, tails choose B!

? Why do you say that?

? A hesitant person, the real problem he encounters is not the quality of A and B, but that he "can't convince himself". No matter whether he chooses A or B, he can't convince himself that "this is the best". Because I am afraid of regret, I will be entangled.

Because you are afraid of making a decision and regretting it. In that case, let's see if you will go back on your word now, and flip a coin to have this effect.

If the result is positive, that is, choose A, the other party may have two reactions at this time. The first reaction, the other party said very readily: "OK, I see, I refuse B and stay with A! This reaction is of course the best, because he has made a decision.

People's psychology is wonderful. If there are no restrictions, they will feel that this is good or that is good, and it is easy to fall into the dilemma of indecision. Therefore, when hesitating, you can try to decide by flipping a coin.