The relationship between people is metaphysics.

Since I was a child, I have believed that the encounter between people and the relationship between people are actually metaphysics. The ups and downs of life and death have too many insoluble places.

Although modern psychology and biology can explain some phenomena or propose some solutions.

But many times, even if you know something, it is useless. Facing a specific person, what feels right is right, and what feels wrong is wrong.

In the end, it can only be explained by fate (parents, brothers, sisters, husband, wife, children and friends).

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It's like:

Why are some parents and children alienated and indifferent all their lives, or constantly fighting against entanglement?

Why do brothers and sisters of "one world has this life but no afterlife" turn against each other because of various trivial matters and do not communicate with each other?

Why love at first sight, love at first sight close lover, but finally became a bitter couple?

Why do old friends for many years drift away, become strangers, and even betray and betray?

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I believe that the forms of these relationships are not normal for most people. Only in real life, there are many such situations that have been heard, seen and experienced.

However, sometimes, when you think about it carefully, it is also very unusual.

Just like some people, although they are obviously not related to each other, they always feel like family and have deep feelings, just like Tao Yuanming's poem "When brothers, why flesh and blood?"

Some people, although they obviously know nothing or little about each other's life and experience, can always feel the same frequency vibration, sigh and hate meeting each other late from each other's words and phrases.

Some people are willing to accompany or help each other when they need it, even if they don't think too much about each other and know that they can't get anything from each other.

Some people have known or known each other for a long time, but they have never thought about it and have never had in-depth contact. I wasted half my life and met again one day, only to find that the other person was the one I was looking for.

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The beauty of fate is indescribable, and sometimes it is here.

Everything people experience from birth to death is full of all kinds of accidents.

Afterwards, it seems that everyone can find many clues from these accidents, connect them in series, and analyze and prove the inevitability of the outcome.

But what if it is proved?

What should come is still here, or can't escape, can't escape?

It seems that there are two fates, making love there and manipulating it at will. You and he (she) are just a chess piece.

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So when I was a child, I wanted to be a novel writer and a film screenwriter when I grew up (now I have basically dispelled this delusion).

Because of this, you can create characters and then arrange their fate according to your own wishes.

Until I heard two things I didn't know were reliable

One is that Tolstoy wrote that Anna karenin was heartbroken when she died, and people hid all kinds of murder weapons at home to prevent suicide. Another thing is that Marquez cried to his wife when he wrote about the death of Colonel Brianaud, and her wife suddenly realized that the colonel was dead.

It turns out that even the great writers who have insight into the world and human feelings have their own destiny, and even the writers who created these characters themselves can't control their direction.

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So I finally know that some things, especially the relationship between people, don't have to go into too much.

Because there are always things that can't be explained or explained, and they can't stand the question. There are too many mysteries in this world that human beings have not yet explored, as well as various "known obstacles" in their own existence, which may not be fully understood throughout their lives and efforts.

How else can you explain why many people still believe in fortune telling, astrology and tarot cards until today?

So I want to cherish every fate and be kind to everyone. Relationships may be close or distant, good or bad, but fate, originally, is neither good nor bad. What matters is who you are, what kind of person you are and how you treat others.

Everyone you meet will influence you more or less and shape you, just like a mirror, reflecting your inner secret side and making you know yourself and others better.

This is probably a kind of resistance to the so-called fate. Life cannot be changed, but luck can.

Therefore, we must follow the fate and make progress.