How did your husband's feelings change before and after his marriage?

People change. When a man says he loves you, it only shows that he is sincere at the promised time and moment. At that moment, he thought he could always love you and give you any future you want. But why is the promise so beautiful? It is because promising to give people an ideal life state is tantamount to painting cakes to satisfy their hunger. After a long time, people have changed, and the original promise doesn't count. So, don't believe any promises a man makes, and don't listen to him tell you what the future will be like. These are meaningless. What really makes sense is that I said I wanted to see a movie, and you bought a ticket after work and said I would show it to you. This is what I really want. Real, within reach, I am in your heart, and I am also held in your hand.

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Why do you say that promises are mostly illusory, because no one is immutable. What was it like before marriage and after marriage? You look like a mirror in your heart. So what happens to men before and after marriage? I interviewed seven married women specially, and felt extremely sad after reading it.

A: Miss Zhao, 30, has been married for five years.

When a man loves you, your willfulness is all personality. When he doesn't love you, even if you are as meek as a cat, he will think you have lost your hair. Don't ask me how I know, just experience it yourself. The person who chased me at the beginning was not the same person as I am now.

B: Miss Wu, 32 years old, has been married for six years and is now divorced.

Before I got married, he said he would protect me for life, but later, he gave me all the big waves in my life. Then slowly I realized that the only person worth looking forward to was myself. I hope that warriors without armor can still win alone, and I hope that they can get a new life after divorce. I just want to go to work now, and I don't want to fall in love.

C: Miss Tang, 40 years old, married 12 years.

My husband changed me, probably after I gave birth to a child, and the difference was obviously big. Before and after marriage, he would buy me flowers and gifts every holiday. When I was unhappy at work, he told me to resign and said that he would support me for life. But later, I not only stopped buying flowers and gifts, but even forgot my birthday and our wedding anniversary. Not only that, but he also said that I have to go to work, and I can't always waste money at home and earn nothing. Hehe, I understand now that women still have to be financially independent. Otherwise, even if you buy a dish, he will think you spend too much money.

D: Miss Ma, 28, has been married for two years.

There must be changes before marriage and after marriage. To sum up, premarital marriage is a romantic thing, which makes life particularly idealized; But after I got married, I lost all the romance and novelty and put my life management into practice. Just live like this. It's just the thought of living like this for decades to come that marriage is meaningless. So I really hope that our novelty will not disappear.

E: Miss Hu, 33, has been married for seven years.

Before marriage, it was like a fairy tale. After marriage, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea all say that marriage is the grave of love. It's true. There is nothing new between us, let alone romance. Happy marriages are similar, but unfortunately there are many forms. I can't help it for the children, but I still have to live. Besides, there are no perfect people in the world. Marriage is no joke. You can't divorce as soon as something goes wrong. Couples still have to get used to it.

Miss Wang, 38, has been married for ten years.

Before I got married, he called me naughty, cute, excellent and beautiful. After marriage, he called me willful, paranoid, unreasonable, stingy, narrow-minded and bad-tempered.

G: Miss Zhang, 50, has been married for 27 years.

My husband is a man who doesn't understand romance. We were poor at that time, so we had nothing to give. Later, we got married, he started his own business, made some money, and his life gradually got better. But between us, it is as dull as ever. Now that the child is older, take him on a trip. A man will definitely change before and after marriage, but he will become more mature and responsible. I will never regret marrying him in my life.

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The last one was suddenly moved. So much for the best love. It is not easy for two people to live together. You can't just give up You must cherish it. Of course, if it really becomes unacceptable to you and directly crosses your bottom line, you should also learn to stop in time. People will change, but I hope that the person I spend the rest of my life with will become better, love me more, be more responsible and take responsibility. Is your husband like this? Welcome to leave a message