Burning incense can break the fate with him.

When seeking marriage, you can write a blessing note similar to "Pray for God's blessing, may I meet a lover" and tell God your wish generously. If you have a sweetheart, you can also write the name of your sweetheart and tell the story between you, so as to enhance your marriage fortune with him. If not, I sincerely pray that I can have a happy marriage.

People should understand a truth when proposing marriage. What you want is a happy marriage, but this marriage can't hurt others' marriage. Therefore, when writing a blessing note, you must never write anything that will harm other people's marriage, such as "I hope the Buddha will bless them to separate soon." This is immoral. Don't covet those who are suitable. The gods will not respond to this malicious blessing.