Can high-frequency chatting produce the illusion of love?

In my opinion, high-frequency chatting will create the illusion of love. Each of us is born lonely and longs for a warmth. Many times, we really feel a ripple in our hearts because of each other's meticulous care and warmth, and it is easy to like each other through the screen. And when it comes to ambiguity, we can't tell what the relationship is.

Especially like an ambiguous period in a relationship, when both parties have not made the relationship clear, you are still secretly complacent that the other party may also like you. But we may forget that people are different. Some chats may really treat you as a good friend, but they are more often a way to pass away loneliness when you are bored, and even get used to the fun brought by ambiguous chats.

There was a friend who knew a boy while playing games. The two of them play games very tacitly, and the other takes care of her in the game. Later, wechat was added, and it became familiar after a while.

In her spare time after work, she will have time to chat with each other. When eating, they will share what they ate today, and a little wild cat seen by the roadside will also want to share it with each other. Once the other party answers the message, even if she is taking a shower at that time, she should take her mobile phone to the bathroom for fear of missing the reply of every message. When she gradually got used to him spending the boring time with her after work every day, getting used to her filling the empty window of feelings and getting used to her occupying a part of life.

? She felt that their relationship was actually just a voluntary confession, but when she confessed to him. The other party answered her with a surprised face: I just regard you as a good friend! I immediately deleted my friend's best friend. I believe that we have all had such narcissism before. In fact, it is only our company when we are lonely, and we will break up when we meet new people.

I saw a sentence that said, "Too frequent communication can easily lead to an illusion of love, an illusion of habit, trust and happiness." "In fact, this passage applies not only to love relationships, but also to interpersonal communication. The most comfortable relationship between people is a certain degree of intimacy and friendship. If you don't want to have a few relationships with others, you can't wait to hand over all of yourself at once. Just like in 5 cm per second: "Maybe we sent each other 1000 messages, but our hearts were not closer to 1 cm. "

In love, it is really important for two people to talk, but true love only accounts for a small part. You know, a person who really likes you from the bottom of his heart will understand that it is better for him to appear in front of you when you need him than to talk to you for three days and three nights with his mobile phone.

"It is not shameful to have a good impression on a person across the screen. This kind of love is too normal. But in fact, all your infatuation comes from your imagination, you just need to remember this. " Don't imagine each other perfectly, don't rely on each other habitually, and don't feel as if you are in love with him because of the short-lived beauty.

May we all calm down and keep our hearts until we meet the right person, talk more and be gentle with each other. That's good.