What should I do if I can't pick a topic when chatting with girls?

Many boys want to pursue their favorite girl after meeting her, but because of their low emotional intelligence, chatting with girls can never find a suitable topic to arouse their interest. In fact, as long as we start with more details, we will soon find some similar topics.

First, the general topic of girls When chatting with girls at first, in order not to make mistakes, try to talk about some very general topics first, otherwise talking about some strange topics at the beginning may cause girls' disgust. For example, if you talk about traveling with a house girl, no matter how wonderful you say, she will not be interested. So at the beginning, you should choose to develop from food, entertainment gossip, movies and TV series.

I believe there is no girl who doesn't like to eat delicious food. Even if she is a house girl, you can talk to her about which takeaway is delicious and what takeaway is usually delicious. Gossip is a girl's nature. You can collect some less popular gossip and talk to her. Most gossip girls know about it, so they won't be interested.

There are many things to talk about in the last film and television drama, which can be said from actors, plots, acting skills, spit points and so on. It doesn't matter if you don't have any opinions about these movies and TV series, you can go online in advance to find some information about these movies and TV series, film reviews and so on. But no matter which topic you start with, you should preview the relevant knowledge.

Second, observe her preferences from a circle of friends. After a little familiarity, you can start with the personal preferences of girls. You can observe her circle of friends and see what she usually likes. If her circle of friends is full of photos of some scenic spots, then you can talk to her about her travel, where she has been (you can deliberately say a few places she has been to bring them closer), where she wants to go in the future, or you can ask her where she wants to travel in the future, and maybe go out to play together, thus creating a very good contact opportunity.

If she likes a singer, you should get to know him and learn some songs of this singer. If she likes playing games, then you can play with her. I believe there are still fewer boys who can't play games. In short, try to cater to her preferences and let yourself slowly integrate into her life.

Third, praise the girl and say some sweet words. There is no girl who doesn't like being praised by others, so you can praise this girl from time to time when chatting with her, but pay attention to me. If you praise too much, girls will think you are very experienced and playboy, which is counterproductive. After getting familiar with girls, you can say some sweet words appropriately. You should know that you can only become friends if you chat normally all the time, and if you want to be lovers with her, then proper ambiguity is essential.

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