Husband and wife are lovers, and their feelings are weak, all for three reasons.

Whether it is lovers or lovers, the weakening of feelings are all these three reasons.

1, the sense of demand is reduced, and the enthusiasm is reduced.

Before marriage, a man desperately pursues women, and his first need is to find a wife.

After catching up with him, he met his own needs. After a long time, what attracted a woman to him gradually faded away.

If women do not develop deeper attractive content in the process of desalination, men will gradually lose their passion for women who get along with each other day and night, and their enthusiasm will gradually decline.

And many women, at first, are reserved and reserved, and will not fully deliver their body and mind;

However, after marriage, the sense of security arises spontaneously, the dependence on marriage and men becomes greater, the demand and enthusiasm continue to rise, and I devote myself to and attach myself to men.

In this way, in this marriage, there will be a cold and a hot situation, and there will be two diametrically opposite tensions. In the long run, the two sides will continue to consume each other's love in marriage.

2. Contradictions occur and feelings get worse.

Before marriage, two people will automatically filter each other's shortcomings, only see each other's advantages and cover up the problems caused by defects;

However, the longer you get along with each other after marriage, the more you will expose your shortcomings, discover and amplify each other's shortcomings, and there will be many contradictions and dissatisfaction.

Marriage is not a stable compound, and problems are inevitable. If two people can use the method of Ranger to resolve these contradictions, their lives will get better and better.

If you just avoid the problem or intensify it, you will eventually go further and further.

Why do men become indifferent and unsmiling to their wives after marriage, but instead smile and laugh at other women outside? Because he can't relax in front of his wife and is too depressed, he will choose to indulge in work to escape.

3, give up self, can not cherish.

There are too many such couples: in order to maintain close relationship and hold on to men, women always give up their dignity, excessively reduce their needs, blindly pay, put all their energy into marriage and men, and completely lose themselves.

Women who are bound by marriage have voluntarily given up themselves, so how can men choose to respect and cherish you, because even you have never respected and cherished yourself.

A woman who loses her center of gravity and can't find herself will make men more and more presumptuous and completely ignore your feelings and emotions. Love is a process in which two people get better from each other, not pain.

For the faded feelings, as long as women know how to seize the opportunity and adopt targeted skills, the feelings after marriage will naturally flow, like a honeymoon full of happiness.

Pain gives you motivation to find ways to get rid of threats. People who have fully grown up in marriage can take care of themselves, support each other and take care of their relationship.