What should people pay attention to when they meet "love" in middle age?

There is a saying that:

Life is not only for one person, but also for loving one person. ?

Although this sentence is heartfelt, it is very realistic.

When I decide to marry someone, I believe everyone will be loyal to each other because of heartache and stay together for life.

However, a long life, the passage of time, the passage of love, will make people feel boring At this time, when people meet their own hearts again, it is inevitable that they will make irrational actions because of impulse.

However, when people reach middle age, don't they? Love? There is something more important than love, and that is responsibility and commitment.

As someone said:

No one can put an end to the possibility of meeting one's true love after marriage, but people born should have reverence for marriage besides their obsession with love. ?

A good marriage is always in daily necessities, and we love each other again and again until we grow old.

Therefore, before you get married, you can pursue love generously; But after marriage, we can't ignore the weight of responsibility.

02.

In Thirty, Xu Huanshan's wife Gu Jia is the representative of the perfect wife.

Internally, she takes care of her family, not only handling things in an orderly way, but also taking care of her son and husband just right;

Externally, she achieved her career, prepared for the company, shouldered the pressure for her husband, and ran around to turn the tide when the company was in the most difficult time;

She devoted herself wholeheartedly to the whole family. It can be said that she has a clear conscience about all aspects of her family.

However, Xu Huanshan does not know how to cherish.

Cheating with Lin behind his wife's back and betraying his marriage.

In the end, although Xu Huanshan lost his way, it was too late, leaving the originally happy family in pieces.

It is undeniable that people have the freedom to pursue true love, but this freedom only belongs to those who have not yet entered marriage.

If a married person talks about the so-called true love outside marriage, all he gets is regret and regret.

When people reach middle age, they are no longer lonely, have families and children. At this time, the most important thing is to keep your heart and family, and then spend the rest of your life safely.

Perhaps such a day is calm, but such a day will make you feel dull happiness.

03.

In marriage, extramarital affairs have always been the chief culprit leading to the breakdown of marriage.

After all, no one can stand the betrayal of their partner.

Because of this, really smart middle-aged people will keep their distance and keep proper limit when they meet their heartbeat again.

Because they understand that a temporary impulse is likely to ruin their lifelong happiness.

Just like Lin Jianqing and Fang Xiaoxiao in the movie Later Us.

Some people say that it is a pity that Lin Jianqing and Fang Xiaoxiao, two people who love each other, are not together in the movie.

And I think this is the best ending.

Because Lin Jianqing already has his own family and children. Although Lin Jianqing and his wife don't love each other very much, they live happily.

If, at this time, two people break through the boundary, it will inevitably destroy Lin Jianqing's family, which may eventually entangle each other and even make two people fall into greater pain.

In the face of doomed feelings, it is better to turn back than to die.

In life, the most important thing to cherish is the happiness you have now, not to destroy it because of impulse.

When people reach middle age, you have to know how to be mature, and you always have to make a choice.

Otherwise, the result of wanting everything is often nothing.

04.

In one's life, one will not only meet one person who makes one's heart beat.

However, no matter how beautiful the heart is, it can't render the future and can't afford happiness.

Life can't be all good, and life can't be all good.

If you have a heartbeat at the wrong time, then you must let go and pull away decisively.

Only by keeping your heart, can you keep your family and your marriage.

The rest of your life is still long. I hope you can keep your heart, take responsibility, cherish your marriage and cherish your hard-won happiness.