Reading Zeng Guofan's Letter 8: The ups and downs of profit and loss, people can not be without defects, how to resolve depends on the direction of the soul.

This letter is about the avenue of the Book of Changes, studying the truth of the rise and fall of the virtual and the real, and knowing that people can't be without defects. When the sun is in the sky, it goes west. When the moon is full, it loses money. There are lonely days in the sky, gaps in the southeast of the earth, and nothing is always perfect without defects.

A few days ago, my nephew and niece took the one-way route because of their poor study, and everything went well. As a result, my niece should have been admitted and was waiting to go to school in September, but my nephew was not worrying. Those who don't want to take the single-stroke route think that their grades are really ugly, and then they ask around. They also signed up for a private single-recruit school, which will start in September. Things have come to an end, but it is a pity that a series of things caused by this have caused family members to reflect. I thought my nephews were well-off, but not very rich. I thought their academic performance was good, but I never thought it was entirely my family's fault. Now children's thoughts and ideas need to be well understood. We must find ways to get these ideas and master them in all directions, which is very helpful for communicating with children and parents' attitude towards children. It's really a pity to say so, but after all, there is a choice, so let's move on. There will be regrets eventually. What I am afraid of is that if you take it to heart, the child's mind is still mature. Adults say that adults are right, and so are children, but who is right or wrong can only be judged by time. No matter when you were born, people can't be complete. Unfortunately, it is flawed. How to go next is up to you. I know that both nephews have their own hobbies and will choose and go in the future. Here, I only wish and hope.