Did my wife betray me? Terrible!

I don't want to throw cold water on you, but judging from all the signs you said, there is a great possibility of betrayal.

However, to be on the safe side, you can observe it twice.

Besides, why not test her in the following ways to see how she reacts? You pretend to make up a story about having an affair (cheating) outside, and you are very contradictory and want to confess to her. See how your wife reacts. Under normal circumstances, any woman who encounters her husband's infidelity will react violently, or accuse or be sad. But if her reaction is not very intense and a little tepid, then I can be sure that she betrayed you, because for her, your infidelity only offsets her fault, and her heart is balanced, so she won't strongly accuse you. Besides, if she has no emotional attachment to you, she won't care about your affair!

Do you think what I said makes sense?

In addition, what I want to say is that if she really betrayed you, it depends on the essential difference. If it's only a physical betrayal and you are still the most important emotionally, then you should give her a chance (I know you can't accept it, but there is no way. Nowadays, the social atmosphere is so bad that it is possible for a person to do irrational things if he is empty. If she betrays you emotionally and has put all her thoughts on other men, such a wife is no longer worth your nostalgia.

As for me, occasionally physical mistakes can be forgiven, but emotional betrayal is intolerable!