A good relationship and marriage is a win-win situation, not a unilateral sacrifice.

In China's history textbooks, the combination of Chiang Kai-shek and Song Dynasty is described as follows: I met Chiang Kai-shek for the first time in 1920, and was enthusiastically pursued by Chiang Kai-shek. Song Meiling asked Chiang Kai-shek to dissolve his engagement with all his wives and concubines before agreeing to his pursuit. So they got married at Shanghai Dahua Hotel 1927 12 1. This group was once called "(Jiang) China (Zheng) (Song) America (Times) Cooperation".

According to Chiang Kai-shek's diary, when Chiang Kai-shek first met Song Meiling, he thought the girl was very beautiful. After the second meeting, I dared to ask Song out, but I was afraid that my conditions were not suitable and I dared not pursue it rashly. Therefore, for a long time, Chiang Kai-shek recorded his love relationship with the "third brother" Song Meiling in his diary.

At that time, Chiang Kai-shek was in a low position and was in a turbulent era. No one can predict the future. But the Song family has strict family education and independent personality. Their marriage should not be a political marriage, but Chiang Kai-shek was attracted by Song Meiling and finally came together. According to the diary, Chiang Kai-shek's "distressed mother-in-law" was a filial act to make the elderly happy when her mother-in-law was seriously ill. But since then, Chiang Kai-shek has been indomitable, consistent inside and outside, and there are often Bible prayers in his diary.