Jerry and Li XiaoLu's Divorce: How important is the sense of boundaries in heterosexual communication?

This is extremely important. Although a person's life is lonely, it is calmer and more reliable than a relationship without a sense of boundary. Everyone's life will have moments of lack of interest, but this is not an excuse for chaotic relationships. First of all, what you need to consider is that I must find the boundaries and restrictions of my interaction with the opposite sex to avoid unnecessary troubles and misunderstandings. More importantly, I must consider my girlfriend's mood and feelings.

This sense of boundaries is based on the feelings of taking care of your girlfriend and eliminating unnecessary troubles. We can help others on the basis of ensuring that this premise is not destroyed. This consideration is responsible for us and others. On the premise of maintaining independent personal dignity and personal space, we try our best to release goodwill to others.

Whether it is big enough to deal with the opposite sex or small enough to help girls twist the bottle cap, we need to maintain our independent dignity and personality space and try our best to help others with a sense of boundaries and boundaries. Sometimes, it's not that you don't help, it's not that you can't help, it depends on how you help. Keeping close is the correct way to communicate.

Find a balance between the opposite sex and a suitable boundary, and you will understand that keeping a distance is a suitable way of communication. A person's high emotional intelligence doesn't care how much you know, but should be able to perceive his role in the environment and find his position quickly. You can neither go beyond the scope of others nor let others trample on you. So, where does the sense of boundaries come from? In my opinion, the real boundary is to be able to clearly distinguish the boundary between yourself and others. There seems to be an obstacle in my heart. I will not rush into other people's territory, nor will I let others intrude into mine.

The boundary of communication between the opposite sex, just like a thing marks the boundary, scope or edge ... On the psychological level, the boundary lies in the perception that he or she is a different individual, because this different feeling makes everyone have a unique and independent identity, and above this sense of limitation, we will see what to do and what not to do. This is a real sense of boundaries, not to narrow the distance, but to keep the distance.