What did I think when I was born again? Why not vote for the royal family?

The person who comes to be your child may solve the eternal entanglement through parent-child relationship with you. Eternal entanglement is different. Suppose you have two or three children, and one of them is more helpful to your eternal karma. You will find that this child is very caring. He can lead you in many things. He has a better temper and is more sensible than you, and may even be your benefactor. You and this kind of child, basically grew up in mutual assistance and cooperation in the past.

You will also find that some children give you a special headache. You have been worried about him all your life, and you can't let him go even at the end of your life. Although he has brought you troubles and pains, somewhere in your heart, you will feel that you are closest to this child, because he is the most difficult lesson and challenge in your life. If you want to grow a brain in this life, you may have to get on well with him first. Family is the most solid Dojo. You have a way to get along with parents, couples and children. If you can handle these three relationships well, you will gradually spread your love to your neighbors and friends.

Many parents tend to overprotect, interfere and expect too much when educating their children, which is unhealthy for their bodies and minds. Parents of our generation are learning how to be the "healthiest" parents. In fact, everyone is in this process. Not only do children have to learn, but parents are also learning, and parents learn as much as children. We are all learning how to be parents by being parents. From the point of view of body and mind, the first task of a good parent is to treat the child as an independent individual. The child you gave birth to does not belong to you. He learns from each other by reaching a parent-child relationship with you in his life. He reincarnated in order to reach a parent-child relationship with you to complete a spiritual growth and emotional exchange with each other. You must look at this matter from a very broad perspective.

Children come to accompany their parents' spiritual growth. From a physical and mental point of view, the child is actually not the parent's. He has his own personality, his own unique outlook on life, all his reincarnation and his own inner wisdom. If we don't see this in our relationship with children, conflicts will continue to erupt. Because in the whole concept of mind and body, when every soul wants to be reborn, he has roughly investigated the times and environment he wants to live in, and all the information has been stored in his subconscious.

Parents should be stepping stones, not stumbling blocks. Trust your children. If he dares to be reborn, it means that he has two brushes. If he dares to be your child, it shows that he is fully prepared. Maybe we still can't see the clue, maybe they are still lazy, but please remember: life will find its own way out. So what we want to give is opportunity, care, love and trust. The more you give, the better life will be. True love is telling children that you will do well, not constantly helping them.

The best recurrent orientation of 12 constellation every time.

Constellation is the way for the sun to cross the palace, which is called the moon general in the traditional six benevolence. The anger in the sky, that is, the highest day, is what the ancients said: The moon is bright and full, and Pojun can always be seen. Pojun, the former, will not be passed down from generation to generation. That is, where the qi of the highest heaven refers, sit on evil spirits to live, take the direction as auspicious, get angry and retreat evil spirits, and this day is also full of vitality. The position corresponding to every hour is the place of anger referred to by the barrel handle. Relative to the macro environment, it refers to the direction of the whole country, and relative to the micro environment, it refers to the direction of a city, a village or a room. Hurry to find out if you were reborn in the best direction when you were born.

Children's time: 23- 1 min; Clown: 1-3 points; Yin Shi: 3-5 o'clock; Shi Mao: 5-7 o'clock; Chen Shi: 7-9 o'clock; Time: 9- 1 1: noon:11-0/3 o'clock; Not yet:13-15; Application: 15- 17 points; Unitary time:17-19; Time:19-21; Shihai: 2 1-23. (depending on solar time)

It is fate that we came here to be reborn and find this parent. Why do you want this couple to be parents? Why don't you find someone else? Explain to us in the Taoist scriptures that if there is no fate, you can't see it face to face or find it. What is fate? We say there are four fates.

The first fate: paying off debts.

The fourth is to pay off debts, because he owes his parents, so he will take good care of their material life. It depends on how much you owe. If you owe more, he will pay more and take good care of his parents. If you owe less, you can barely feed your parents' lives, and you won't give more and you won't suffer. We all saw it with our own eyes. What do we take our parents for? Servants are similar. When I am old, I have a servant to take care of me, but I look like a servant, and my monthly living expenses are very tight. Their parents owed him very little before, so he paid him very little back.

The second fate: complaining

If you complain in the second way, you were sworn enemies in your past life. He went to your house to complain and retaliate. This is a big problem. This child will be the black sheep of your family in the future and will ruin your family to complain. So in this society, there are fewer good children and more bad children. What is the reason? Are your parents kind to others or selfish, trying to take advantage of others? That's the reason.

The third force: gratitude

You were predestined friends with him in previous lives, and these parents are kind to you. You met with malicious joy, and you came to repay it. The children who come to repay their kindness are very good and worry-free. His dutiful son and grandson are so clever, so good and so obedient. Understand this truth, we must have a good relationship with people, do a lot of favors, and many people will return.

The fourth fate: debt collection

You owe him money, but you don't owe him life, and he won't kill you. You have to pay him back the money you earned, debt collector. Those who owed less died at the age of three or four. Why? You spent so much money, that's all. He left begging. He has no feelings for you. No matter how much you like him, he has no feelings for you. If he owes a lot, he may have to ask a 20-year-old to graduate from college and leave with a doctorate, which is much more difficult.

Without these four relationships, you wouldn't come to a family.

What should the family do after knowing these relationships? We should turn these doomed loves into karma. Teaching, you should teach him well, ethics, cause and effect, and responsibility, and turn this past unjust debt into a legitimate cause. There is no fixed method, and there is no fixed method. See if you can change. Our ancestors in China knew this for a long time, so our ancestors attached importance to rooted education in order to change this fate. So fate is not immutable, it can be changed. When you changed your teaching, you were generous to him. Why? He used to repay kindness, complain, collect debts and pay off debts. Now, when you change, teach him to be a saint and a saint. That's great.

(1) All sentient beings are reincarnated by Heaven.

1. If all sentient beings keep the five commandments and do ten good deeds, they will have a beautiful life in heaven. When they fell from the sky and were born in the world, they had a rigorous appearance, a positive belief and a wonderful appearance. They were intelligent and happy.

2, like to wear fancy clothes, incense, always love fresh and clean, choose good friends.

3. I often like singing and dancing.

4, Changle high-rise, do not live next door (love to live in high-rise, do not want to live in low-rise).

5. Being the first person to smile (always smiling) is not embarrassed, and has deeds and virtues (angry people are reasonable and virtuous). Speech is soft, clever, convenient and sincere, which makes the listener believe in happiness, and it will not hurt people and has great wisdom.

6. Changle dresses appropriately (likes to dress very solemnly).

7. This person is kind and willing to become a monk.

8. If you are a teacher, you should diligently practice the purification method, learn Buddhism and Taoism, do not love fame and fortune in the world, and aspire to supreme bodhi.

9. Such people are intelligent, practice more, and the quantity is difficult to mention. They don't measure with their hearts or observe with their eyes. This is a virtuous man, and he is blessed when he sees life. If he practices pure precepts, he will soon be regarded as the supreme bodhi.

(2) All sentient beings who were born in the human world and walked out of animal tracks.

1, this person is mentally retarded, acts stupidly, lacks wisdom, is disproportionate, and is lazy.

2, eat more, don't pick the thickness (eat anything dirty, it doesn't matter if you are complacent).

3, awkward, clumsy, and abrupt (reckless).

4, this person is strong, often when the load (strong as a cow, use heavy things).

People who like to make friends with fools should be bosom friends (people with the same animal nature).

6. I like to curl my feet (the habit of lying on the animal path).

7. Lying on the ground anytime and anywhere will not avoid dirty dirt.

8, like nudity, not ashamed (you can wear clothes without clothes, not ashamed).

9, the heart is often false and deceitful, and the words are different.

10, to speak ill of others, flattery is untrue (very good at saying others' faults, false structure, flattery, crooked heart, very unreliable).

1 1, likes to seek other people's property and often loves to pay off debts (trying to get rid of debts).

12, this person can't be motivated by seeing good, doesn't believe in Buddhism, and often commits ten evils.

13, this kind of sentient beings wandered back and forth in heresy. After countless years of robbery, this person is rare in this world, but still so, he is destined to return to his misery after death and be reborn as a beast. This is unknown to outsiders.

(3) Restore all beings from human nature (regenerate human nature after death from human nature)

1. Such people are virtuous and upright, close to good friends, always loyal and filial.

2. If a wicked person slanders and slanders him (this person makes up stories at random and slanders this person intentionally), this person will not deal with this slanderer in the end. How can this man be like this? Because this person often cherishes the door for love, knows shame (knows what shame is), and is a sincere and trustworthy person (a kind and trustworthy person).

3. Be fond of fame and reputation (fame and reputation), be skillful in nature (artistry), and respect the wise.

I am ashamed and soft-hearted. I will be grateful to those who take care of me (I will repay you if I have the opportunity).

5, the teaching of good knowledge, its heart is smooth and not violated.

6. Kindness and sorrow, filial piety to adoptive parents, teachers and monks, and cautious respect (cautious respect for teachers and monks).

7. Know people's priorities and do things well (knowing that others are in a hurry will help, and it is principled and measured).

8. Be kind and always believe in Buddhism (know the way of harmony, love Buddha and believe in Buddha).

9, good charity, perseverance.

10, not tolerant of debts, not responsible for others (unwilling to owe debts, not betraying or betraying others).

1 1, a little rich, like to do good deeds, learn from others, and learn to create happiness without pain (even if you have no money (poverty), you should learn to do good deeds and help others, hoping that everyone will be happy and don't want to see others suffer).

12, people like this, if they act like this, are doomed to ascend to heaven after death, not to fall into hell, to be reborn, to please people, not to suffer the sufferings of the audience, and to get a personal life after death.

(4) All beings incarnate from non-human shura to the world.

1, born, arrogant, my slow mind is very strong, I don't believe in Buddhism very much, and I occasionally enter Buddhism, and my motivation is not simple. I fought hard, broke up for the benefit, and hurt my classmates.

I like to get angry very much (I get angry easily), and I like to argue and fight with others.

3, very narrow-minded, very good at remembering grudges and evils (very good at remembering grudges and retaliating against others, you have to drag others into the water to give up and hate others, you can't look at people well, you are jealous, so you often feel sick)

The flattery of the speech is not true, but false and deceptive.

5, pay off debts (debt will also swear).

6. He is tall and strong (tall and burly), with round eyes, sparse teeth (sparse teeth and pointed teeth), brave and powerful (he is very powerful) and full of fighting spirit (all he thinks about is how to fight, such as the joy of living in the wild).

7, often fighting, endless resentment (hatred is extremely heavy, endless).

8. Both tongues are broken (they are good at gossiping and making people inseparable), and the harmony of good people is alienated.

9. Despise those who look down on the virtuous, talk about the merits of the virtuous, and vilify good people.

10, because of these bad karma, people are destined to fall directly into hell after death, without a full stop. After that, he will use his karma to report other bad interests, and then fall back to Asura Road.

(5) All beings who came out of hell and were born on the earth.

1. Listen to his voice. It sounds like a donkey barking, and it's loud, urgent and impatient.

2, this person's heart is often less than words, more tolerant, it is difficult to believe, like a person without relatives and friends.

This person is ugly, disrespectful to the teacher and does not believe in Buddhism.

4, unfilial and unjust, shameless.

5. He is good at killing things and often does many evil things.

6. This man is short-lived.

7, it is difficult to see bodhicitta.

8. Look at the above, such people are doomed to fall back to the three evil ways after death.

(6) All beings born in the world from the ghost world

1, this person looks dark and thin, and his face is dull.

2, short and evil hair, Huang Chi pale and wavy, wrinkled nose, glaring, white eyes looking straight (crooked nose, fierce eyes, white eyes, straight eyes).

3, often feel hungry, often want to eat.

4, the character is very greedy, jealous, afraid of officials (afraid of being an official).

5. I am persistent with Jaken. I talk back to others (talk behind their backs and sow discord) and tell him what to do (speak ill of others).

6, insatiable, lustful, love to accumulate money and material, can not give up giving to all beings (to the extreme).

7. People who are tired of kindness don't like to see good things, but only believe evil things.

8. When you see money and property, you can't help stealing.

9, the heart is often greedy, stealing, never knowing satisfaction, eating a little loss will be resentful.

10, coveting a little money or cheap, gives birth to joy in my heart; You will be jealous if you are not greedy for money.

1 1, this kind of person is hard to be willing, but he believes in evil, flatters his life, does not practice good dharma, and does not respect the right dharma. I believe in the altar of ghosts and gods, I believe that I have a mission, I yearn for offering sacrifices to shrines, I love offering sacrifices, I like to go to Yin temples and shrines to beg children to do things, and I kneel down to pray for wealth.

12, this kind of person is doomed to death, and will fall into hell first. After countless years, he will come out of hell and fall into a ghost. This cycle of life and death is endless.