How to chat with girls?

How to chat with girls? It is difficult for single people to chat with the girls they like. Many single friends have a puzzle that they don't know what to talk to girls. It seems inappropriate to talk about various topics. Let's see how to chat with girls.

How to chat with girls? 1 1, talk well.

The so-called high emotional intelligence is actually to talk well, be calm and steady when things go wrong, act according to circumstances when things go wrong, and chat with girls you like in the most comfortable state.

This will not only make girls feel that you have high emotional intelligence, but even think that you are a good man to rely on. Nowadays, young people are too impatient, they will escape when they encounter things, and they are not mature enough, while boys with high emotional intelligence will choose to talk well and impress girls.

Step 2 praise others

Learning to praise others is also a sign of high emotional intelligence, especially when chatting with girls. It is even more necessary to attract her attention through your praise, so that she prefers you to chat with you, and everyone loves to hear good things.

Especially for girls with soft ears, they prefer to hear your heartfelt praise. People with high emotional intelligence will give full face in front of others, especially in crowded places. The more you praise girls, the more you can impress them. With the increasing number of compliments, it is difficult for girls to like you or dislike you.

3. Know how to listen

When chatting with the girl you like, the boy who knows how to listen must have a very high emotional intelligence, which can also reflect his high literacy, because girls like to be respected when chatting, if you chat with her.

If she is interrupted frequently, she will always express her opinions at random. Even if a girl likes you, she will gradually lose interest in you and even think you are rude. On the contrary, a person who knows how to listen and give girls space deserves girls' love.

How to chat with girls? 2 1, constellation

Women are emotional animals, and anything that girls don't say will make us very interested and feel amazing!

If you can count tarot cards, you will increase your charm. Girls will stick to you every day to let you know what kind of person she will marry in the future, so that even if the person you say is more and more like yourself, she will believe you!

If you don't know tarot cards, learn some constellation knowledge. After all, tarot cards can't be understood in a day or two.

The knowledge of constellations is not difficult to learn. Just search some knowledge of the twelve constellations and a pile will come out. Of course, you can also add teacher Linger's WeChat consultation, hehe! So how do you know what constellation a girl is?

Don't ask a girl's birthday or what constellation she is. After chatting for three or two sentences, I asked her by guessing, what constellation are you? Even if I guess wrong, it doesn't matter. Keep guessing!

Not only will a girl not blame you, but she will finally tell you what her real constellation is! If you don't believe me, just try ~ If you guess right, that girl will think you are amazing. Then I will ask you a few more questions out of curiosity! Then you add a constellation that is in harmony with you, which will bring you closer!

2. The other person's studies or work.

If you are a student, you can talk more about things at school, exams, study, teachers, classmates or recent academic confusion. These are all good topics. The key point of how Tomb-Sweeping Day chats with girls is to learn to find a topic.

For example, if she has joined the work, she can also learn about the interpersonal relationship and management system at work, but she can't ask casually, which will give people a bad feeling of exploring.

3. Tourist attractions.

What places of interest have you been to before? Where have you traveled? She is happy to answer this question and will not be wary. If she has been to many places, she will be willing to tell you. What you need to do at this time is to listen, and she will soon have a good impression on you.

At this time, you can ask her where else she wants to go. If she says so-and-so always wants to go, your chance will come. Bravely said, "I've always wanted to go there." Let's go together one day and realize our dreams together? "She will gladly accept your invitation.

How to chat with girls? 3 First: Don't check your household registration, but learn to turn interrogative sentences into declarative sentences.

If you want to know about girls, don't keep asking questions. You have been asking the girls where everyone is and where they work this year for half an hour. Even if you knew everything, you would have been excluded from her life.

When you asked, you thought you knew about the girl. Put yourself in others' shoes. How would you feel if you were asked? Are you bored? Do you think this person has many problems? What's the point of asking these questions?

Then how can we make girls unprepared, not disgusted, and take the initiative to tell you about themselves? That is to learn to turn interrogative sentences into declarative sentences, and girls who want to know can understand them step by step.

Don't ask too many questions. For example, after you ask about a girl's job, you should also briefly talk about yourself. This is not a household registration check. It is possible to continue chatting at this speed.

Second: Use more open thinking in chatting.

Many topics can't be discussed in one or two sentences, mainly because you didn't leave room for girls to respond when talking about this topic. Chatting with girls is not to let girls tell you whether you are good or not, but to let her have the idea of continuing to chat with you in the process of chatting, and then have a good impression on you.

For example, you tell girls that there is a new movie recently. Would you like to watch it together? In this way, girls can only answer whether you go or not, and the probability of not going is definitely higher. Who can't go to the movies? Friends, girlfriends, colleagues, anyone. Why does it have to be you

You need to arouse the girl's interest in chatting and let her express her thoughts on what you say. On the one hand, you can get to know the girl better according to her answers. On the other hand, when she expresses her thoughts and emotions to you, she is more dependent on you and more willing to talk to you.

When talking about movies, you can ask: There are many new movies recently. What do you think of this movie? You can go and have a look together when you are free. In this case, the girl must first express her opinion of the film to you, and then you can cater to her according to her answer, and then go to see it with you when she is happy.

Third: boast that girls are smarter.

Many boys and girls talked for a while, and girls began to share their lives, but they didn't respond to the sharing of girls, and they were mediocre every time, which not only wasted the previous efforts, but also cut off the road to promotion in the future. Girls are emotional thinking, and naturally like to be recognized and praised, especially by the opposite sex. You should learn to praise girls' thinking regularly, and at the same time master how to praise girls. Don't just say something really beautiful and good. It's okay to do it once or twice. Too many times will make girls feel that such a response is too boring and perfunctory.

A truly effective compliment must be true feelings. Don't let your praise be superficial and forced by girls. For example, a girl bought a new 300 yuan skirt and sent it to a circle of friends. If you praise her directly, it's really nice.

Girls only feel right in their hearts. I am a beautiful and obvious thing. Girls don't even remember. You can boast that you are so elegant in this dress. Only 300? It feels like 3000 yuan on you!

This kind of praise will suddenly reach the point of a girl. Use more specific words and other things to increase your praise. Girls are absolutely impressed by your praise.