What if a girl says she is a baby boy (when she meets a baby boy in marriage or love)?

Living with "Ma Baonan" does make people feel anxious, but if female friends can change or even save them.

Believe that life is another experience, you will have a high sense of satisfaction and accomplishment, you are really powerless, just like chicken ribs, it is a pity to eat tasteless and abandon it.

After getting married, Susie basically had no peace of mind for a few days, because she found that her husband was actually a baby boy.

When she was in love, her husband was very kind and obedient to her. Susu feels that she has found a good man, and she still has to listen to herself at home after marriage.

However, since she contacted her in-laws, she found that her husband obeyed her, but it didn't work in front of her mother-in-law.

For example, they should take care of something, but my mother-in-law just stepped in, and Mr.zhou certainly didn't want to.

What she didn't expect was that her husband listened to her mother-in-law's advice and had to do it according to her mother-in-law's idea. She was so angry that she had a quarrel with her husband that night.

Several times, because of some different habits, Susie and her mother-in-law had conflicts, so she went to her husband to judge.

As a result, it was obvious that her husband stood on her mother-in-law's side and accused Susie of not knowing how to respect the elderly.

Susu is really wronged. She really hates her mother-in-law interfering in her and her husband's family affairs, but she doesn't want a divorce because she still loves her husband.

In fact, many women find out that their husbands are Ma Baonan after marriage. I don't want to divorce my husband. What should I do if I want to change my husband?

Then, you can refer to the following steps.

Advance by retreating, attack by defending.

After many girls marry Ma Baonan, all kinds of things at home will be interfered by her mother-in-law, and her husband will naturally listen to her mother-in-law.

At this time, girls will start to blame their mother-in-law and husband. One is much in charge, and the other only listens to her mother.

It doesn't matter if it's not weird. After you complain, your mother-in-law will continue to take care of your little family and speak ill of her daughter-in-law in front of her son.

If you want a divorce, you can say it casually. If you don't want a divorce, you have to use your head.

For Ma Baonan, you can say: Husband, it's good and happy that you have a mother who cares about everything for you.

But we are married, how can you bear to worry about your mother?

If we can't exercise the ability to live independently now, then our in-laws will not be able to worry about us when they are old. What should we do?

In-laws are old, and we have to wait on them. If we don't have the ability to live independently, we can do nothing when they need us.

So now you can exercise your ability to live independently and do your own thing, and you will not be afraid to take care of your in-laws in the future.

After talking with my husband, I will go to my mother-in-law, pretend to be considerate and sensible, and tell her that it's good for her husband to be your son, but now that we have a family, it's time to take care of you.

It's good and comfortable to be taken care of by you, but it's really hard for us to see you working so hard.

If we are always taken care of by you, our self-care ability will become worse in the future. When you are old, we will do nothing, and it will be miserable if we don't take good care of you.

In this way, the mother-in-law's worry is magnified, and she is afraid that her son will not be able to live without himself in the future, and she will change a little.

Know how to stimulate her husband's desire for freedom.

Ma Baonan has always been obedient to his mother, just like a baby, but he can only be said to be a giant baby in adulthood.

Although he is an obedient child, no matter how obedient he is, sometimes he will be rebellious. They will suffer because they can't have their own ideas and choices.

So as a wife, you should find out what he really wants to do but her mother-in-law doesn't allow, and then support him.

We must affirm his ideas and treat him with a worship attitude, so as to arouse his emotions and make him think that his ideas are correct.

Everyone longs for freedom, so when he finds someone who supports, encourages and appreciates him, it is the first step to wake him up.

If he wins his mother-in-law and enjoys the feeling of independence and freedom, he won't want to be restricted in the future.

If he is suppressed by his mother-in-law, he will be very unhappy and will have a rebellious attitude towards her.

Of course, this requires you to be smart, not only to make your husband feel that you are on his side, but also to make your mother-in-law feel that you are on her side.

But in fact you are on your side, fighting for a free life for yourself.

Fight for the dominance of Ma Maonan.

Men become mamao men for two fundamental reasons:

First, he has no ability to solve problems and likes to escape, but his mother will help him solve problems. After a long time, he will be a mother.

Second, he is lazy. When his mother has arranged everything for him, he just needs to get the result. He can accept such an easy life even if he lacks some freedom.

So, at the beginning of life, you will be like his mother. When his mother takes care of him, you will do the same.

If this man has dignity and faces the equal care of his mother and wife, he will prefer the care of his wife.

His wife took good care of him. Not only was he satisfied, but others also praised his vision and found a good wife for his brother.

When the mother-in-law sees that you take care of her son so well, she can safely give her son to you, and those problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not appear easily.

Although this process is hard, as long as it is boiled out, the result is good.

Turn a horse-haired boy into a wife boy.

Ma Baonan's characteristic is obedient. If he listens to you instead of fucking, you'll be relieved.

Therefore, after you have completed the process of changing him and gained the dominance of your husband, you should let him do things, cultivate his ability to live independently and cultivate his habit of taking care of his wife.

Although we can't make him mature, we just listen to you.

The ultimate goal of marriage is happiness, whether you marry your mother or not.

The most embarrassing thing for Ma Bao men is that when he finds out that the other person is Ma Baonan, he often gets caught up in it, which is the most difficult.

For a girl, being willing to go home with her boyfriend or even marry her boyfriend must be deeply rooted.

In the eyes of outsiders, it is necessary to stop loss in time, but it is difficult to put it down when you are in it.

He is aware of his own problems. Secondly, he is willing to work hard for change.

Ma Baonan is a magical creature.

Physically, they have some physical functions that normal adult men have, but psychologically, they will always be the baby who is not more than three years old.

Most mamao boys are between 0~ 1.5 years old, some are better, they can reach 2~3 years old, and the older ones are gone.

A gentle baby boy may be weaned successfully with the guidance and help of the other half.

For a serious baby boy, you have only two ways-bear it or get out.

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