Everyday speech with high emotional intelligence

Everyday speech with high emotional intelligence

Emotional intelligence is high in daily speaking, and chatting and talking happen all the time in our lives. In fact, whether a person can speak can reflect a person's temperament and cultivation, so people who can speak can get the favor of others. Let's share the daily speech of high emotional intelligence.

High emotional intelligence speech daily oral 1 first, the first chat speech

1. Self-ripe

For people who are familiar with themselves, it will really cause others to talk about it. Of course, you can't go too far. Otherwise, others will think that you may be a little crazy, as long as you are a little approachable and easy to talk to.

For example:

(1) Big wavy hair with your velvet coat makes you look so elegant.

(2) The horoscope says that we are suitable for chatting today.

(3) Your clothes are very catwalk, and I think your clothes are very good.

Show yourself

Self-presentation can not only let the other person know about you, but also highlight your own characteristics and attract others' attention, so this way is desirable, but you must pay attention to seeking truth from facts and don't fart, so your impression in the eyes of others will be greatly reduced.

For example:

(1) Presentation of life taste: I went out to eat with my friends, and I was hungry before serving (I lost a photo of Gog's restaurant).

(2) Lifestyle display: I feel full of power now. I just worked out in the gym for an hour, and now I'm going home to take a shower.

3. Topic chat

It is also called not taking the usual path, that is, using the topic to completely attract the other person to chat with you, which is very important for the choice of topic. Different people choose different topics, so we must know each other's personality.

For example:

(1) Gentle type: Based on my intuition of fortune telling for more than 20 years, I feel that your personality is like a cat.

(2) Hot type: Your women's sixth sense is really accurate. We men seem to be naked in front of you.

(3) Stubborn: Although good-looking, there is a heart that does not give up easily under the good-looking appearance.

Second, examples of high emotional intelligence chat language

For people with high emotional intelligence, chatting is really simple and easy, but once you listen, you can make others want to chat with you, get close to you, and make people around you think you are a person with high emotional intelligence.

For example:

1. Seeing your photos makes me feel very literary, and literary girls are generally more romantic. Are you like this?

2. Every time you appear, I feel heartbroken. Every time you put it on, people always feel that you are a great collocation teacher.

You look really good recently. Your work must be going well.

For people with high emotional intelligence, they fully consider each other's feelings when they speak, so they won't make others feel bored, and they won't think you are nagging, because they always talk and do things just right.

Daily speaking, high emotional intelligence, classic humor, eloquence, picking up girls.

1, chat

If I make such an opening remark, I may end up being beaten to death by a beautiful woman like you. In fact, the opening remarks of every beautiful woman and I are asking the same question: "Beauty, what industry are you currently engaged in?"

This sentence is very corny, but very useful. Do you want to know why? Because the purpose of our coming to this marketing meeting is to learn how to make money and ask her how to make money, of course she won't refuse me. After a few words, I said I would learn from you, and then I exchanged business cards with each other, as simple as that. Two of the beautiful women chatted with me very speculatively.

Brother, do you understand the principle when you see this? What, don't you get it? Then I'll tell you directly, the trick is:

The language and body movements when chatting up must match the environment at that time.

Step 2 strike up a conversation

Many classic accolades in dating science are the products of certain circumstances, such as nightclubs. If you use them in your life, you are sure to fail. Some conventions, you bring into life to strike up a conversation, and you may even be called crazy by others.

The principle of dating science is to show high-value charm in front of strange MM for a short time, thus attracting MM instantly. If you are not Gao Fushuai, I suggest you use it less.

Why are some brothers not even good at chatting up after learning a lot of dating science skills? Because he only knows how to apply convention, regardless of whether this technology is in line with the reality of life.

For example, as we all know, we are now living in an era full of fear of strangers. The most important thing for a beautiful woman to go out is "anti-theft, robbery, cheating and perverting". At this time, if you pretend to be a cool guy and approach MM in an exaggerated or funny way, do you think she will stay away from the bad guys with suspicion?

So the first point of chatting up is to make your behavior conform to the living habits of normal people, that is, your language and behavior should match the environment.

Maybe my brother thinks this sentence is a bit difficult to understand? Let me give you an example.

3. Language and behavior should match the environment.

For example, if you go by bus and see a beautiful MM, how should you go forward and strike up a conversation? It's simple. Ask the way: "Beauty, which bus should I take to the building?" "I just arrived in this city and I'm not familiar with it. How can I get to the station? "

For example, if you go to other places by car and there is a beautiful woman sitting next to you, how can you strike up a conversation? "Beauty, are you going to work in a city or to travel?" "Beauty, this is my first time to go to a city. Do you know any interesting places? "

For example, you often meet a beautiful woman in the office building and take the elevator with you. How do you start a conversation? "Good morning, beauty, you are so punctual every day!" "Beauty, you are so dedicated!" If you smile, will people refuse you? Will a beautiful woman give you a smile back? After two or three interactions like this, is it easy for you to ask her for a business card?

Step 4 interact

For example, how to strike up a conversation when you meet a beautiful woman while shopping in a shopping mall? "Beauty, my mother asked me to buy her a bottle of peanut oil, but I don't know which one is better. Can you refer to it for me? " Do you think a beautiful woman would have the heart to refuse a filial son's request?

Some brothers have been addicted to dating science, but they can't talk normally. Do you find it ridiculous? Some chronology theories are seriously divorced from the reality of life. They always want to attract the attention of beautiful women at the first time, and people are avoiding you. What's the use of your skills such as cold reading, joking and suppressing?

Therefore, the key to strike up a conversation is: the first sentence or body movements must make beautiful women interact with you. Only when she talks to you will you have all the opportunities in the future. To do this, the first is in line with human nature, and the second is in line with living habits.

What does it mean to conform to human nature? For example, if you want to find a beautiful woman to dance in a ballroom, how do ordinary people say, "Beauty, can I buy you a drink?" "Beauty, may I ask you to dance?" Such words convey an obvious attempt: you want to hit on her! If you are Gao Fushuai, it doesn't matter, otherwise you may be killed.

So what should we do? You can sit down opposite the beauty: "Beauty, can you dance so-and-so?" I can never master some of them. Can you tell me how to practice them well? " When a beautiful woman tells you the way, then you can go on to say, "I'm stupid, can I demonstrate myself later?" When you hold a beautiful woman's hand and hug her waist, do you think there is a chance to hit on her?

Why is it so difficult to refuse such a beautiful woman to strike up a conversation? Because being a good teacher is human nature, it has nothing to do with whether you are handsome or not. As long as you understand human nature, it will be very easy to strike up a conversation in life.

What do you mean by conforming to living habits? The examples I cited earlier are all like this, that is, what scene you and MM are in now, so be sure to say something relevant.

Take another extreme example: for example, how to strike up a conversation when you meet a beautiful MM in the hospital? "Beauty, how do you also catch a cold? The recent flu is really harmful. " People who go to the hospital must be seeing a doctor, and the success rate will be high only if the topic and scene of the conversation are related to seeing a doctor.

Why are some brothers more confused when they learn dating science? Because you always mechanically copy some established words, you are either considered as a bad person by beautiful women or you are insane. How can we succeed?

I'm not a good conversationalist. I don't know how to strike up a conversation like my brother. There once lived a beautiful woman in the house opposite my dormitory. I watch her go in and out every day, but I just don't have the courage to talk to her, because she is so beautiful, but I am so ordinary.

I have the deepest experience about chatting up: as long as your attempt attracts the attention of a beautiful woman and makes her feel good, most of the chatting up process will fail. Because you care too much about your image and the reaction of beautiful women, you will have extreme anxiety and fear, which will make your speech and body movements abnormal, thus making beautiful women have strong resistance. Therefore, the more you deliberately show high skills, the easier it is to fail.

High emotional intelligence daily speech III. Ways to exercise eloquence.

1, read aloud

Good eloquence not only needs to hone oral ability, but more importantly, psychological quality. Have strong self-confidence. Reading some good articles aloud every day can not only clear your throat and expand your chest, but also enhance your confidence subtly!

2. Fast reading training

Read slowly at first, speed up gradually, and finally reach your fastest speed. Remember to be fast and not chaotic, and pronounce accurately and clearly, not fast and fast. Taking time out to exercise every day can make you articulate and articulate.

3. Record the recitation process.

Every once in a while, you can make your own speech. Record the process and watch it again and again in your spare time. See where you made a mistake, where the gesture was not done well, and where the expression was not in place. It is easy to find your own shortcomings and make up for them accordingly.

Step 4 recite the article

Find some good articles and try to recite them. Pay attention not only to rote memorization, but also to emotional recitation. This will not only exercise your memory, but also your oral expression ability, keep in touch for a long time and accumulate your vocabulary.

5. Always on the stage.

No matter how many basic skills you have mastered, it is useless if you don't use them in practice. If you want to break through the bottleneck, you must find opportunities to express it publicly. Seize every opportunity, show yourself publicly, and take the stage as soon as possible. Not only has my eloquence been well exercised, but my self-confidence and interaction ability have also been improved.