What does it mean that when a man is born, a woman marries? Does this make sense?

This proverb is mainly used by the elderly in rural areas to bless their children. The main meaning is that a man's birthday is very important to his luck and fate, so he often uses it for divination and prayer. In the past, women were often told by their elders that they must marry well, that is, not only to marry a good man, but also to choose a good day for marriage. Old people usually choose a good day to get married. In the past, it was generally believed that the wedding day would affect their married life.

Although modern people have become more and more convinced that fate does not depend on these customs, old people in ancient or rural areas still spend a lot of time on fortune-telling research, so as to make their own or their children's lives smooth and without so many ups and downs. Therefore, the original intention of this sentence is also to let their descendants live a happy life, and hope that their children will have smooth sailing when they form a new family in the future. These two sentences, which may have been ignored by people now, carry the good wishes of ancient people or rural people.

From the perspective of modern people, this statement is still one-sided. In fact, many successful people, born in a noble family, have not become extremely rich, but have changed their destiny through hard work and progress the day after tomorrow. There are also many "rich second generation" who have failed to live up to their innate excellent background. However, modern women are mostly independent. Compared with the ancient feudal society, women's social status has been greatly improved. Not all women expect to live a better life through marriage, but to get happiness by improving themselves.

Nowadays, with the gradual opening of people's ideas, most people think that their fate is still in their own hands, and they have to work hard to live a good life.