As a tarot card, how to give emotional advice? -Incidental cases

When I first started to learn Tarot divination, many of my friends who studied together were too young to have many profound emotional experiences, and some of them were even a blank sheet of paper. I don't know how to analyze the cases of divination feelings. I can only say that there is nothing I can do at the worst.

Because I don't know enough about the process and turning point of love, because too many negative news and emotional troubles are played up around me, there is a high probability that any case of emotional entanglement will not have a good result by default. There was once a college classmate who had never been in love. He mentioned men and said, "Men don't have a good thing!" " . People who don't know still think that her emotional experience is too rich and she has been dumped countless times.

It's funny to think of it.

Even I sometimes have to substitute my past emotional experience to judge. But after all, it is someone else's case, no matter how similar it is to your past feelings, you must never generalize with the objective situation of a third party.

In my opinion, the first step to improve the ability of card unlocking is to break away from subjective "feeling" and strengthen academic logic.

Don't worry if you are tarot+emotional white. The advice of analyzing feelings is actually very simple. Here are some tips (you don't need to be an expert in love to understand).

Case background: girl 2 1 year. She and her boyfriend have known each other for half a year, and their feelings are tepid. At a friend's party, her boyfriend met her best friend and had a good exchange. The girl was jealous, so she quarreled with her boyfriend when she got home, said sad words to her boyfriend, and let her boyfriend break up in a rage and ask if she could get back together.

What I really want is: trial? Normal vision

What the opponent really thinks: the sword king is reversed.

The influence of their relationship on themselves: the inversion of the holy grail king

The influence of interrelationships on each other: eight inversions of the holy grail

Obstacles you will encounter: the sword is in the right position.

The final result: the sword is reversed three times.

My future mood: four opposites of star currency

The future mood of the other party: the star currency is reversed.

Subdivision explanation:

What I really think is that the trial has begun.

In daily life and communication, girls have too many complaints and dissatisfaction with their boyfriends, and they usually don't show weakness and are picky about each other. The subconscious is not optimistic about this relationship. This incident is actually just the fuse. The girl lacks calm wisdom in this relationship, and the purpose of her outburst is to vent her emotions. I didn't expect the man to really break up.

The judgment card here refers to a negative, larger foe emotion. In this case, the parties often regret it (whether he will stay remains to be studied, and he is not determined to end it. Otherwise, I wouldn't want to continue the "experiment"), because I am not calm enough, I usually lack emotional maintenance, and I don't really enjoy the emotional dividend. Isn't it a loss to be dumped at this time?

What the opponent really thinks: the sword king is reversed.

The man doesn't feel that he is wrong, and he doesn't even have the consciousness of introspection. I don't want to continue dating my girlfriend. The sword represents a kind of logical thinking, and the inverted sentence shows that the boy doesn't know how to lack empathy and has no face. What he thinks now is that he thinks that girl is unreasonable and really wants to break up. But still angry and emotional.

The influence of their relationship on themselves: the inversion of the holy grail king

From the emotional point of view of girls, boys usually don't love her, have no warm words and actions, and are not romantic. In addition, in fact, girls also yearn for other opposite sex, but they just don't show it directly or have no chance to meet it. Inversion here is a kind of concealment or projection. It means that she longs for a boyfriend with the character of the Holy Grail King. Gentle and considerate, the kind that can deceive people. Another influence is that she actually has the possibility of finding someone else.

The influence of interrelationships on each other: eight inversions of the holy grail

The man has always felt that this relationship is a pity. This card can show that this man has not never thought about cheating (the cup on the card is a pile of lust), but has not broken through the psychological defense based on old love. This relationship also reminds him of his predecessor's goodness all the time, or misses his girlfriend's original appearance (the reversal of the Holy Grail is often related to past feelings). The overall effect is that this relationship makes him feel worse as he goes on talking, and it is not as good as before.

Obstacles you will encounter: the sword is in the right position.

Corresponding to the sword above, the king is upside down. After being a man, it is really easy to have further interest in a girl's girlfriend, or to hit it off with similar girls. The trouble with this obstacle is that it is invisible and conscious when it comes to two choices. Just like an affair, he can't find evidence, but he still makes the other person feel insecure. The biggest obstacle is that the two have been absent-minded, and this girlfriend incident is even worse.

The final result: the sword is reversed three times.

The problem corresponding to the last card has not been solved. Deepen the contradiction between the two swords. Don't expect to get back together in the short term. Even if they are reconciled, the man will be cold-blooded or perfunctory.

My future mood: four opposites of star currency

There is no doubt that girls will become more and more insecure, and whatever the other party says will lose confidence. Star coin four is based on the stability of trust. If you put yourself in the other's shoes and the crisis of trust reappears, you will suffer.

The future mood of the other party: the star currency is reversed.

Star coin eight is planned on the emotional level, which is similar to the meaning of talking about marriage. After the reversal, boys will not consider long-term development after this incident. Even the work will be distracted, afraid that the girls behind will clean up his schedule (involving the future direction, there is really the possibility of such interruption).

The above summary, it is difficult to get back together in the short term. The man suspected to have found another goal, and his feelings were derailed. At first, girls have been addicted to mouth, but their sadness will become stronger and stronger. Even after they get back together, they may still have conflicts again because of the inconsistency between communication and love.

If girls still want to save this relationship, how to give advice?

Solve the contradiction with the shortcomings of the card in the position of girls.

Trial. It is her overall aura and performance in this relationship. In Tarot's system, the qualities that each card lacks can be supplemented in the next card. The trial is realistic, critical, negative and serious. Post-trial is the attribute of world card, maturity, overall situation, tolerance and long-term vision. This is what girls lack and need to do at present.

Suggestion 1: the characteristics and love concept of integrating into the world card. First of all, you should put away any negative emotions and reflect on your past performance. Because there are contradictions, it must not be a problem of one person. Although the obvious fault is the boy, since it is you who want to save now, you must consider the problem from the other side's position and temporarily lower your body. Your purpose is to save each other and win his heart again, not to fight for breath.

The grail king is upside down. It is also a projection of love. It means that she has not been in love for a long time. But it also reflects that she is not meticulous enough to make boys fall in love with her. Then the key point is to bring the Holy Grail King here, so that boys can feel full of love and active concern.

Suggestion 2: change the image of being critical and cold in the past and become a warm person to the "Holy Grail King". If you are the Queen of the Holy Grail, you have the entanglement and passivity of a very small woman, and it is easy to do things that only touch you. In Wang's words, men's strength is more atmospheric and responsible, less sentimental and more scheming.

So, with full love, change his prejudice against you, a "tigress", and let him find that you are also considerate and know how to bow your head and admit your mistakes. Therefore, I will also reflect on my own problems. After all, it's wrong to get too close to your girlfriend's best friend.

In the process of communication, use the softness of water element, and the tone must be soft, so as to impress him from the heart and influence him. Then play emotional cards and think about the good memories of the past, what attracted him.

On the whole, water elements and wind elements account for the majority. Explain that one side of this relationship has always been too emotional, and the other side is too casual and loves freedom. Need to use fire elements to synthesize, cast real attraction and rekindle passion.

Suggestion 3: In addition to understanding and sincere apology, the most important thing is to enhance your own advantages and make your life colorful. It doesn't take long to recover from playing emotional cards. Even if you agree to get back together, I pity you. It won't be long before you are attracted to others.

Therefore, the focus is on self-improvement, starting from the aspects of appearance, image, cultural connotation and rich life, so as to attract each other. In this way, he will find that he doesn't know you at all, and you have such an excellent side.

At this time, his curiosity will come back (fire element), and you have changed, and you are no longer the mediocre yourself. At this time, it is the upper hand of restructuring.

Finally, make a summary.

General suggestions and specific steps:

1. Apologize to the other party first and say don't be impulsive and angry. Admit that you are not a good girlfriend. But it is also because I really love each other that I care so much.

2. Calm down and disconnect for a while, but don't blackout or delete. Update your circle of friends in a planned way, let him know that you still have your own life after breaking up, and you are trying to be better.

3. If you haven't contacted for a long time, tentatively greet and invite to meet. If the other person has a good attitude and forgives, then date or ask him questions as friends to increase the frequency of interaction. When feelings get deeper and deeper, getting back together is a matter of course.

If the other person is still indifferent, don't contact first, be yourself. But you must socialize with the other person and let him see your recent situation.

The key is to be aware of your emotional control. Mentality determines everything. When you don't care about gains and losses, learn to control your temper. Whether you get back together or not, you will get better love.

78 cards are a complete system, and each card has its own weaknesses. Using business card printing method and flip-chip method, we can get rid of the projection of personal subjective feelings and tendency judgment, and draw a more objective and pertinent suggestion in the fastest time.