Ask for personal advice! Unemployed on 20th of this month, lovelorn on 2nd1,very depressed. I have never been able to find a stable and suitable job, and my future is at a loss.

Don't expect fortune telling, rely on yourself. Everyone has experienced unknown pains and blows, but most people have survived.

1. unemployed? Dude, you were 25 in' 87, right? The orientation of life, the direction of work and the direction of struggle are all uncertain. Not pestering teachers before the age of 35 is equivalent to changing jobs. You just need to change your job. Whether you think you are not suitable for your previous job or others think you are not suitable, you need to reposition yourself. You just need to change your job and find a new position that suits you better.

2. lovelorn? I don't deny your emotional trauma, but brother, youth is capital. Don't you know that there are many couples who are married or in love, besides the happiness in their eyes, there are many troubles and regrets that you don't know? They often send out such feelings: if only they were single now, how did they choose? So don't worry, brother. God just gave you a chance that others didn't have to choose again. Whatever the reason, at least you are free now. It's your personal decision whether it's time to calm down and find your goal again or not to pursue your previous feelings.

Now is not the time to feel sorry for yourself, but to decide what to do, find a job, find a partner, or do something else. If you are constantly troubled by negative emotions, it is not others who beat you, but you who lose to yourself.

4. I feel uncertain about the future now, such as unstable and inappropriate work. Please underestimate this state, which is also the stage that most people have to go through. You can ask others, how many people your age are clear and firm about my future. I don't listen to them, but I want to know my inner world. In fact, like them, you are all looking for it. It's just that your current search is in the stage of getting it after losing it, while others may be in the stage of just getting it and not starting a new loss. I hope you can understand this process. People who have experienced this state are full of regret.

I want to tell you that it doesn't matter if you are confused, just don't stop moving forward, it doesn't matter if you are confused, just don't blind your heart, it doesn't matter if you are lovelorn, just don't dwell on the past that you can't go back for a long time, and it doesn't matter if you change jobs. Originally, it was to find a better job.

Well, believe in yourself! How can you get what you want if you don't cheer for yourself? Like a real man, even the invincible Xiao Qiang will get ahead sooner or later.