What do Henan people pay attention to when they get married?

1. In Henan Province, a sister-in-law combs her hair for her soon-to-be-married sister. There are two situations. One is to comb it into a bun, which means that my sister is going to be a daughter-in-law. One is to comb a girl's hairstyle, that is, to comb a long braid, which means that an elder sister is a daughter to be married, and then she will be tied into a bun by her husband's sister-in-law or aunt. There is a song when combing the girl's hair.

In Changtan County, northern Henan Province, the lyrics are: "The first seven, the last eight, the husband's family sent together. The husband's family made two and a half hectares, and the mother's family made two and a half hectares, and they got married halfway. "

2. The engagement should be given to both families.

One month before the wedding, the man should bring enough money to buy clothes and jewelry for the woman and buy several sets of clothes to wear at the wedding. ?

A few days before the wedding, the two families should get together to discuss the details of the wedding.

On the wedding day, the groom should pick up the bride on the morning of the wedding day, as soon as possible. ?

6. The bride has a brother or nephew who "closes the door". The man's family should prepare enough red envelopes for the car door. The bride won't "get off" until the car door is released. This "doorman" also holds the keys to the cabinet and box where the bride got married, and a bunch of keys should be given to a red envelope.

7. After the bride enters the groom's house, she begins to worship heaven and earth, worship Gaotang, etc. After that, the master of ceremonies will preside over the bride's "changing her mouth", that is, calling "mom and dad", and the groom's parents have to pay the "changing her mouth fee". ?

8. Everyone avoided entering the bridal chamber. After the bride gets dressed, the groom's sister or niece will bring the bride a washbasin of water. The bride can wash her hands and give her sister or niece a red envelope.

9. Then everyone just plays around, basically dragging the groom to paint oil and smearing coal black on the faces of bridesmaids and groomsmen. These people should be smart and dodge, or they will feel very distressed when they get clothes. ?

10, then have a meal and have a big banquet.

There are 38 kinds of wedding banquets in Henan, including eight kinds of hot dishes, cold dishes and soup.

Eight eight four, it seems that four soups or cold dishes have been reduced.

Eight bowls of four, the thinnest mat, eight hot dishes and four cold dishes.

From the wedding day, on the third day, the son-in-law will go back to her mother's house and set the table for a treat.