What educational stories are there in life?

1, one of the educational stories? Believe in children

There is a test. Choose one of the following three candidates that can benefit mankind. Who would you choose? First, he believes in witch doctors and divination, has two mistresses, has many years of smoking history and is addicted to alcohol; The second one was kicked out of the office twice and refused to get up every day until noon. He used to take drugs when he was in college and drank a lot of brandy every night. The third, a former national war hero, kept vegetarian habits, did not smoke or drink, and did nothing illegal when he was young. Most people will choose the third option without hesitation, but this is wrong. There are historical records: the first one is Franklin? Roosevelt, the second is Churchill and the third is Hitler. This can't help but cause people to think. I didn't expect great men like Roosevelt and Churchill to have such shortcomings; And Hitler, the murderer, has so many bright spots. From this, we think of children. If we believe that every child is a successful person in the future, such as Roosevelt and Churchill later, their so-called shortcomings are not as good as Luo Qiu earlier. Therefore, the child's momentary mistake does not mean anything. We should increase our trust and expectation for children. The whole secret of educating children lies in trusting them.

2. The second educational story? Education begins with respect?

A woman who came back from Germany told a personal experience, which is quite enlightening for us to educate our children. One Sunday, she took her five-year-old son to the park to play. The son surprised his mother by trading a "paper plane" for an electric "car" of a German child. Because that paper plane is only worth 5 cents at best, and this car is worth at least 20 yuan. At first, she thought her son was lying. When she found the owner and the mother of a German child, the German mother said, "The car belongs to the child and it is up to the child." She also said: "If your son likes it, the car is his. In the future, I will take my child to a toy store and let him know how much this car is worth and how many paper planes he can buy, so that he won't do such stupid things again. "

Respect children's choices, don't interfere, don't stop, and don't simply criticize children's practices, but take effective measures to educate children in time. This respect for children is lacking in our education. Respecting children's right to choose does not guarantee that every choice of children is correct, but they are still young! In this process, the child will certainly fall down several times and take detours, but the child's choice ability is improved through repeated attempts. Let's be less blind and rude in education, more rational and scientific, and make love more profound and artistic.