On three kinds of psychology of men from hand movements

When a child's mother pushes a cart of things out of the supermarket, he may rub his hands and make a gesture of expectation. Or, the 60-year-old president of a company is presiding over an important meeting, and the secretary sends a note. After reading it, he stood up and rubbed his hands and said, "Ladies and gentlemen, we have won a huge contract in the company."

In the video of the negotiation, someone quickly rubbed their hands as if expecting something. At the beginning of the negotiation, one party is very surprised to see this gesture, and will immediately pause and ask the other party if there are other arrangements in advance. His smile will tell you that his rubbing hands just makes us believe that he knows and likes what is coming. People often rub their hands like washing their hands before activities. Unless his hands are cold, it means that he is interested in that activity. Maybe that's why gamblers always rub their hands before throwing dice.

Another gesture is not very good, that is, rubbing your hands slowly with a piece of cloth. This gesture is not a sign of confidence in expectation, but a sign of nervousness. Many people dry their sweaty hands with something when they are nervous. Men usually use pants, while women often use handkerchiefs or toilet paper. When testifying in court, a new speaker or an athlete who is waiting for a game often makes a gesture to wipe the sweat off his palm.

Second, circle the coins in your pocket.

Dr. St. Feldman observed that people who often jingle coins in their pockets either attach great importance to money or lack it. Anyone who has been to the casino lobby in Las Vegas must remember those who are playing dice, slot machines or other gambling tools. Coins in their pockets are always jingling.

A friend of ours is a producer of a film company. He is always used to jingling coins in his trouser pockets. You asked him why he did this, and his answer was, "Remind me when you have no money."

Have you noticed how beggars walk past you? They always jingle their money in tin cans to show their urgent need. Service personnel who make a living by tipping often seem to ring coins as a way to send messages to guests.

Third, cross your fingers

The gesture of middle finger pressing on index finger can be traced back to our childhood. When young children tell their parents an unimportant lie, or when they expect good luck, they often pray for good luck.

In the book "Speaking Habits and Attitudes", Dr. Sang Federman claims that this is "a magical gesture to ward off evil spirits, whether it comes from the heart or from the outside." When a friend travels by air, he has to transfer at an airport which is famous for being often late. He crossed his fingers and said to others, "Maybe this way, you can catch the connecting flight."

In business or social situations, this gesture is much more common than we know. Often very secretive, quickly cross and then leave. In many tense situations, this gesture was photographed. When one party makes a request or request, he crosses his fingers slightly to express his hope that his wish will be approved.

In some Latin American countries, the gesture of crossing fingers indicates that two people are very close. In America, two fingers are not tied together, which means "we are so close."