A word to comfort a boy who broke up (a golden sentence to comfort the lovelorn)

Sometimes I feel that Su Dongpo is really a spiritual mentor of life. Why? Because of the puzzles and dilemmas that modern people often encounter, most people can find "antidote" from him and his poems, thus getting some comfort.

When experiencing ups and downs, comfort yourself that when you are alive, you must look down on the ups and downs, "a misty rain, a lifetime"; When I think that we should cherish the present, there are "and try new tea with new fire, poetry and wine by years"; When you are old and want to do something, comfort yourself that "there is no shortage of life, and the water in front of the door can still go west." ...

In addition, at different times, we can always draw energy from such statements as "Life is like a journey, I am also a pedestrian", "Life is everywhere, and it should be like flying snow", "The boat will die today, and the river will live the rest of its life" and "This peaceful place is my hometown". Just watching, it seems that I feel more relaxed, which is also amazing.

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Today's golden sentence to comfort the lovelorn is "There are fragrant grass in the sea", which is also from Su Dongpo's poem "Liang Zhu, Spring is bursting". Of course, his original intention is that there is no love in it, and most of them are lamenting the passing of spring.

Butterfly Hua Lian Spring Scene

Flowers wither and red apricots are small. Swallows fly, green water people go around. There are few branches blowing willows, and there are plenty of fragrant grass in the sea!

Swing inside and outside the wall. The layman in the wall, the beauty in the wall laughs. Laughter dies in silence, but passion is mercilessly annoyed.

It is spring again. In late spring, the spring of nature is about to wither, and the spring flowers are dying bit by bit. This scene is reflected in people's eyes. Recalling the flowers that bloomed before, it is inevitable that people will sigh that beauty is fleeting.

However, it is a natural law that spring has gone to the summer solstice and cold has come to summer. Once a year. Why can you make people feel sad and sad? But it is because from all things in nature, people see their own reflection on it, and their appearance fades year by year, and the number of years people stay in the world is also decreasing year by year.

Qingxing

However, what Su Dongpo saw and felt in this poem is somewhat different. He didn't immerse his eyes in flowing water all the time, but summed them up with the first four words-"The flowers have withered and are still red", and then he turned his eyes to see "small green apricots". Although the flowers have withered, look at this branch, it has begun to bear small green apricots.

After this sentence faded from the lotus red written by Yang Wanli, he saw that the lotus leaf gave birth to a small amount of money-"The green pool is full of red, but the lotus leaf still has the least money", which has the same effect. It's just that Su Shi's meaning here is a little richer, and he spends it on the relationship between fruit and achievement.

"When swallows fly, green water surrounds people." When we look away from the residual red, what a peaceful and peaceful spring scene we see is still thriving and full of vitality everywhere.

The last two sentences of the last movie, "There are few willows blowing on the branches, and there are plenty of fragrant grass in the sea", are the most praised. In fact, he continued the perspective and emotion of the first sentence.

The catkins on the branches are blowing less and less, but try to see farther. Where is the lush spring grass? Moreover, catkins drifted to the end of the world with the wind, leaving the willow branches, but they sprouted new hopes for willow trees.

This sentence can be traced back to Qu Yuan's "Li Sao", which contains: "Why don't you care about the past?" It means everywhere in the world, where is there no fragrant grass? Why do you miss your hometown so much? Although Qu Yuan told him not to pursue hard through divination, he was unwilling to give up his ideal.

In Su Dongpo's first poem, he expressed a very important meaning: don't just pay attention to the departure of the present thing, it may also contain new life. Take your eyes away from the dying red and the flying branches, and you can see a broader and still vibrant world.

Therefore, in this sense, it is still appropriate to use "there are plenty of fish in the sea" today to let the lovelorn come out of the pain of lovelorn and see the wider world. However, Su Dongpo probably never thought of this.

It's just that love is for people, and sometimes it is necessary for this person, and no amount of grass can get into the eyes. Deep in the pain of loss, whether it can be comforted by golden sentences depends on the persistence of this person and this relationship.