What really lets you go is never time.

Remember this sentence: time is the best healing medicine, which can cure all regrets.

But time can't cure all your regrets, nor can it help you make up for them. It just witnessed everything you experienced, and with the passage of time, it finally became an irrelevant past.

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Letting go is never easy. Friend Mu Zi and her boyfriend Zhou Xiao have been on and off for three years.

Mu Zi is a very gentle girl. She likes roses, champagne and everything romantic and ceremonial. After Zhou Xiao and Mu Zi got to know each other, Zhou Xiao played the emotional card and took care of Mu Zi.

Just like the plot in the idol drama, Mu Zi was ill, and Zhou Xiao braved the heavy rain to buy medicine and send it to Mu Zi's house. The feelings of the two people gradually warmed up and soon they were together. The lovestruck couple still kept that shyness, and they walked hand in hand as if there were pink bubbles around them.

But two people get together quickly and break up quickly. Mu Zi is gentle and cautious. Like most girls, she became a detective with strong reconnaissance ability in love.

Zhou Xiao's Weibo, Zhihu and even Netease Cloud Music's software accounts have been found by Mu Zi. Then, combined with these narrative clues and the girl's intuition, Mu Zi felt that Zhou Xiao had a person who couldn't let go.

Mu Zi found that Zhou Xiao's Weibo name included another girl's name, and his Netease cloud account only paid attention to that girl's account; Zhihu is concerned about "what to do if you can't let go of your ex-girlfriend"; What disappointed Mu Zi most was that Zhou Xiao had a girl's birthday tattoo on his back, and he refused to remove it.

Mu Zi told me that she felt very cold at that time, just like walking barefoot in the snow in the cold October winter. Mu Zi was so stubborn that he broke up with Zhou Xiao at that time.

Parting doesn't mean letting go. Because of their work, Mu Zi and Zhou Xiao still meet every day. Mu Zi loves each other so much that it is especially difficult for her to let go. Coupled with Zhou Xiao's intentional or unintentional kindness, the two men soon got back together.

I have asked Mu Zi many times, hating iron not to produce. "He simply can't let go of others. How can you make up with him again? "

I will never forget what Mu Zi said at that time. She said to me with a wry smile, "I know he has someone else in mind, but I can't let him go." He and I are both people who can't extricate themselves from their feelings. What's the difference? "

I used to think Mu Zi was stupid. Hearing her say this, my heart suddenly became complicated. Yes, Zhou Xiao doesn't want to give up the love he once loved, and neither does Mu Zi. Both of them can't get out of the cage of love and are willing to be black and blue.

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Along the way, we met many people, some became friends, some became teachers, some became lovers, and some became familiar strangers. There are only a handful of people who can really accompany us to the end, and most of them are passers-by.

All we can remember are the most painful and happy times. Whether it is gained or lost, it is still fresh in people's memory.

Wu Xinyi, a Taiwan Province writer, wrote in You Are Still Here: "Time is really a terrible thing. It can smooth everything out, scrape off traces of good or bad in my heart, leaving only vague scars. Later, she missed him less and less, and finally she couldn't even dream. "

The story of Mu Zi and Zhou Xiao ended in three years. Yes, two people have been entangled for three years. Finally, exhausted Mu Zi said that she couldn't hold on any longer, and she wanted to give up.

Mu Zi finally got up the courage to let go, and now she has a better life. However, Zhou Xiao is always reluctant to let go, and now he is still alone.

Some pains cannot be cured by time. Will be buried in my heart all my life. Whenever I see someone or something related, I can always evoke a trace of sadness in my heart and flash it from my eyes. No matter how time is polished, this kind of pain will not decrease, and even accumulate deeper and deeper.

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Only those who have experienced it understand that the healing brought by time is only short-lived, and what can really soothe their pain is that they can understand and let go.

When you are in pain, understand that the result is predestined, that loss is for better possession, and that people should always look forward and not stay in the abyss of past pain. Only by completely facing your own pain can you cure your own pain and get a permanent release.

Time is like a passer-by, witnessing our birth and death, our longing for love, and our sadness and tears. Whether time is an antidote or a poison is your choice. Whether you can heal all your pains in the long river depends on whether you are ready to let go of yourself.

I hope everyone can have the courage to let go of themselves. When someone brings it up in front of you again, you can generously answer, "This is a necessary experience in my life. Everything has passed and I have a better future. "