Why do we love paper men so much?

The famous Russian writer Dostoevsky once said: Love concrete people, not abstract people, love life and love the meaning of life. Because certain people are not cute. The more people who like to discuss abstract concepts, the more noble they feel, because the more you think abstract people are cute, the less cute people around you are, because you are too busy loving human beings to love specific people.

The common problem of intellectuals is nothing more than this, and it is also an urgent problem in our contemporary life. We love the perfect protagonist described in the book, the unforgettable love in movies and TV series, and the' God' above us. Because they are beautiful, abstract, concrete and irresistible. Because there are no shortcomings, just like Bai Yueguang and Zhu Shazhi, you can't be ridiculous from a distance! Originally, concreteness and abstraction are independent and interrelated. But once these two things stand on the opposite side, they will produce lesions. How can the perfect be compared with the defective? Nowadays, the single rate of young people remains high, which is the main reason. After enjoying the magnificent beauty in the book and feeling the love between heaven and earth, I will naturally despise those people who are full of shortcomings in reality and don't want to live only with rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. I think I have probably been influenced, perhaps because of escapism or idealism. Somehow, I seem to be waiting for something, but I don't know what I am waiting for. Some things can't be materialized, and imagination is the best.

For realists, it is inconceivable to fall in love with an imaginary person or thing. For people who like precision, they may all be annoying words. But for idealists, this represents uncertainty. Uncertainty brings different results and brings "eggs". Just like a birthday surprise, if you know it in advance, you won't have so many expectations and surprises. I like uncertainty, and I like the guidance of fate. Like to be spontaneous, like to let nature take its course. This does not mean that young people are "Ge You Lie". Likes and uncertainties are based on the fact that I have tried my best. Many people think that the college entrance examination is the biggest hurdle in life. I also thought it was really hard to run in senior three. Now I feel nothing, not to show off from the perspective of a n experienced person, but to find that the original suffering in the past seemed insignificant in the blink of an eye, slowly dissipated in my mind and memory, and became vague and inaccessible. I won't regret, whether I didn't find the right way, whether I didn't cherish friendship, and whether I didn't do this or that. The past has passed, and I may occasionally regret and blame myself. More often, I strode forward without looking back.

I love paper men and real people, and there is no conflict between them. All I want is my choice, the intersection of reason and sensibility, and the blending of utopia and real society. Don't run away from reality, don't resist fantasy. Don't worry about the past, don't be afraid of the future, don't be trapped in your heart, and don't be confused.