Anita Yuen, who was "grumpy", softened up after marrying Csillam.

Looking back on the 29 years when they met and fell in love, Anita Yuen was always making trouble and Csillam was laughing. After so many years, Anita Yuen seems to have never changed, still running around and talking straight. But once the edges and corners seem to have quietly changed.

29 years of love is still as sweet as ever. Anita Yuen comes from a noble family. She lived in the police dormitory with her family since childhood, surrounded by a group of adults who loved her very much, and her family also had the problem of "favoring boys over girls", which made her father very spoiled. Every time I recall my childhood, Anita Yuen admits that he is very lucky and has the freedom and happiness that many children envy. This kind of luck will still accompany her when she grows up. 1990, 19-year-old Anita Yuen had a wonderful life. She signed up for the Miss Hong Kong competition. To her surprise, she won the championship in one fell swoop and became the "most photogenic lady".

Entertainment circles have extended olive branches to her. Faced with the ensuing surprise, Anita Yuen's self-confidence exploded instantly. 1992, Anita Yuen, who only debuted for two years, starred in the first film "Teddy Boy and Pell" and won the Best Newcomer Award in that golden award. 1993 won the 13 Oscar for best actress for "Endless Love" and became the best actress. The following year, she starred in "Golden Branches and Jade Leaves" and won another prize, becoming the first defending champion in the history of the Academy Awards.

Anita Yuen's violent career has made great progress. At the same time, Anita Yuen also forged a deep brotherhood with Leslie Cheung because of this film. Two-time champion's aura, coupled with his brother Leslie Cheung's preference, made Anita Yuen feel at a loss. But there has always been a voice inside telling her: "I must be very red now, very red." At that time, it happened to be when she was young, and the character of "big miss" cultivated since childhood gradually emerged. When filming a TV series, she ran to question the producer because she was dissatisfied with the role. The company arranged for her to be on the show and told her not to dance, but she insisted on dancing desperately, disturbing the order. In cooperation with the great director Jing Wong, I was furious at the scene in order to go to bed on time.

Even during the filming of Thunderbolt, Jackie Chan and I had a lot of unhappiness because of our bad temper. Later, Jackie Chan was completely offended because of problems such as "remake" and "dubbing". He complained to the Hong Kong Directors Association. In her life mode, there is only self-demand, like a crying child, her own will comes first and she ignores others. It was not until she met Csillam that her inner pattern was gradually broken. She took the initiative to end her wrong intimate relationship, slowly changed her "take" state in the relationship and began to learn to give love.

Csillam is famous for her bad temper, which makes her so infatuated with Anita Yuen that many insiders stay away from her. Wu Zhenyu once joked with Csillam: "How can he be afraid of me if he even dares to marry Anita Yuen?" When they first started dating, a friend suggested that Csillam let Anita Yuen change his temper. In this regard, Csillam said: "loving someone does not mean changing her." Csillam's love and tolerance made her learn to face up to her life problems. Once, she only had her own eyes, focusing on her feelings and emotions. But later, when she quarreled with Csillam, and her bad temper was about to gush out, she would give herself a period of silence first.

In Csillam, Anita Yuen also began to learn how to give and love in relationships. The love flowing between them not only changed Anita Yuen, but also made Csillam a better place. In the eyes of outsiders, this relationship has always been a relationship in which women are strong and men are weak and cannot stand the test. But Anita Yuen supported Csillam with love from beginning to end. In this intimate relationship, Anita Yuen also began to take care of Csillam's feelings and restrain his grumpy temper.