How to determine whether he really loves me?

To determine whether a person really loves you can be judged from the following aspects:

1. Performance in action: A person who really loves you will express his love through practical actions. For example, he will listen to your thoughts and feelings, spend time with you, take care of your needs and so on.

2. His key point: A person who really loves you will pay attention to your life, take the initiative to understand your preferences and hobbies, and try to share his life information with you and keep in touch.

3. Attitude towards you: A person who really loves you will respect you and care about you, and will not blame you, attack you or hurt you for no reason.

4. His speech acts: A person who really loves you will express his love through speech acts, such as saying you love each other, saying nice things about each other, supporting each other in life, and so on.

In short, love takes time to cultivate, maintain and prove. At some point in your life, you need to observe and judge whether your relationship is meaningful and healthy. If you find someone who really loves you, you will feel happy, safe, respectful and supportive.