How to judge yourself with pua?

You can judge whether you have pua according to the following points:

First, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. A good relationship must be equal, and it will never be one person condescending, and one person is Nuo Nuo. Therefore, if your partner always blames you for all the wrong reasons, never shares with you and always belittles you, then he is in PUA.

Second, I am not confident in myself. Most girls susceptible to PUA are not confident enough. They are always afraid that others don't like them, that they will leave themselves, and that they will never meet good feelings after leaving this person. But you should know that people who really love you will not make you uneasy, and really good feelings will also give you a sense of security and happiness, instead of making you feel insecure.

Third, always make excuses for each other. Many people in PUA are not unaware that the other party is hurting themselves, nor are they unaware that they will feel uncomfortable in such feelings. But they don't have strong inner support to leave this relationship, so they are used to finding some reasons for themselves and each other to rationalize such behaviors and feelings.

Fourth, lose your own principle bottom line. Many men PUA a a woman's process, most of them want to see where your bottom line is. If you retreat a little, they will advance a little until you completely lose your principles and bottom line.

Fifth, never consider your own feelings. Most girls who are PUA will be humble, only pay attention to each other's emotions, not their own, and even hurt themselves to please each other.

Everyone must keep their eyes open and stay awake when looking for someone.