My father has 17 children. He is unmarried at the age of 55 because he doesn't want to be a supporting role and suffers from depression.

Being born in a family has a great influence on a person, affecting people's values and marriage views. ...

There are many stars in the entertainment circle, and their lives have been influenced by their family experiences. Many actresses are more disappointed with marriage and choose not to get married.

The actress mentioned below chose to fall in love but refused to get married because her parents' marriage failed.

This actress is China and Hongkong actress Yu.

Speaking of rain, you may not be familiar with the name, but everyone will be familiar with it when it comes to her as A Zi in Felix Wong Yat Wa's Dragon.

Of course, as a golden supporting role in Hong Kong, she played Princess Channing in Jordan chan's The Duke Of Mount Deer, Spider Essence in Dicky Cheung's The Journey to the West and Deng Yuchan in Goddess Edition, which also impressed many people.

Primitive family

Yu was born in Hong Kong from 65438 to 0966. Her father is an ordinary taxi driver and her mother is a traditional housewife.

Parents have bad feelings, and if they disagree, they quarrel constantly. Later, before my parents divorced, my father brought back an aunt to live with.

In an interview, the host Li Jing asked Rain, did mom and dad bring an aunt back at that time without divorce?

Rain said yes, she said that divorce was not popular at that time, and my mother was a very traditional person. She has never worked, and her mother feels that she has no ability to live independently without her father.

Her family is not rich, but her family has been having children all the time, and then they are getting poorer and poorer.

Rain introduced that her father and his mother had nine children, and later his aunt had eight children. The total number of children at home 17, and the rain platoon 13.

Her father is still a typical male chauvinist who is strict with his wife and children. In addition, there are many brothers and sisters, constant quarrels and contradictions, and poor economic conditions. A family of 20 people rely on their father's salary to support themselves and have been above the poverty line. Once their mother and children do something that displeases their father, they may be beaten at any time.

Start a career

Children from poor families have taken the initiative very early. Rain's brothers and sisters went out to work early to earn money, and Rain, as the thirteenth and fourth grade, began to help her mother buy food, wash vegetables and cook.

However, because my brothers and sisters went out to work early, the economic situation at home improved, which gave Rain the opportunity to study acting in the university system.

From 65438 to 0986, Rain was admitted to the Theatre Academy of Hong Kong Academy for Performing Arts and became a classmate of Zhan, Zhang, Zhang and Zhang.

1989 Rain, a junior, was lucky enough to be spotted by director Lawrence Ah Mon and starred in the film The Queen of Temple Street, playing Zhang Aijia's daughter. Her rebellion and incomprehension towards her mother were vividly interpreted by Rain.

1990, Rain won the Best Supporting Actress Award and the Best Newcomer Award at the Academy Awards for "The Queen of Temple Street". She was also the first person in the history of the Academy Awards to win both awards.

At such a high starting point in the film and television industry, Yu successfully signed HKTVB after graduating from freshman year.

TVB golden supporting role

Unlike the current entertainment circle, you can be the protagonist with a little traffic and get a high salary. It was very difficult to get a TVB role in Starlight Glimmer, and it was even harder to be the protagonist. You know, Stephen Chow, Tony Leung Chiu Wai and Michael Miu also ran a walk-on.

TVB didn't give her the leading role, even though it started from a very high rain. However, with her unique performance style and temperament, she still performed many supporting roles with few scenes and created many exquisite classic images.

With the broadcast of Ba Long Day from 65438 to 0997, she entered the mainland audience career with A Zi.

The Duke of Lushan 1998 broadcast, in which the charming and provocative Princess Channing is another unforgettable character. Later, the broadcast of works such as The Monkey King Surging in the Sea of Clouds, The Legend of the Dragon and The List of Gods made her a "golden supporting role" in the eyes of the public.

Suffer from depression

For an ambitious actor, how can he always be a supporting actor willingly? Each of them has a leading role dream.

She tried hard to get a leading role. It is said that Rain used to work seven days a week without rest, one day 18 hours, and even didn't sleep for three or four days at the busiest time.

However, Rain worked hard for 10 years, but he wanted to be the leading role without any results. Dicky Cheung, Chen Musheng and others who filmed with her have long been household names, but she is still called "A Zi" and "Princess Channing".

She once said in Super Speaker: Fate is so confusing. It gave me such a high honor when I was not ready. But when I pursued 10 years, it didn't give me any hope. I envy, envy, anger and resentment, but in the final analysis, I just don't want to be a supporting role for decades, and I don't want to be a "A Zi" for decades.

Under the intense work and psychological pressure, Rain suffered from severe depression.

Fortunately, accompanied by her boyfriend outside the circle, she actively cooperated with the doctor's treatment and her condition gradually improved. Finally, she survived the most difficult days.

Love is not willing to get married.

Lucky people use their childhood to cure their whole lives, while unfortunate people use their whole lives to cure their childhood.

Rain's boyfriend, who spent the most difficult time with him, is a designer and they have been in love for 25 years. But for her boyfriend's many proposals, she refused. Once, she chose to propose to her boyfriend on a program, but she still didn't see her enter the marriage hall.

During the interview, Jing Li once asked her if her parents' status would affect her marriage.

She said without hesitation: Yes, I will believe in love, but I won't believe in marriage. Marriage is not necessarily happy, and I will quarrel and divorce. If only two people could be together easily.

Now 55-year-old Rain has entered the age of knowing destiny. She looks more open-minded and tolerant than before, and what she can't let go seems to be no longer important.

Life is long and short, so make yourself comfortable all your life.

May you and I, through thorns and thistles, live our inner selves without being limited by the world.