Should I remarry?

1: I don't think we should remarry for our children. Your relationship with your husband is greater than all other social relationships. If you remarry just for the sake of children, your attitude and expectation for children will increase unconsciously. If the child does not meet your expectations, then you will inadvertently convey such emotions and thoughts.

For example, we often hear that some women will say when their children are disobedient: If it weren't for you, I would have separated from your father. I think as a child, that person will be very depressed. Whether you want to be together or not is none of my business. Whether I am good or not has nothing to do with your relationship. Why can't I pull out your relationship?

Don't use children as an excuse to bravely admit that you are not facing the challenges and responsibilities of your future life alone. Don't use children as cushions. The child is so naive. As an adult, we should see clearly what responsibility is, not to say that giving children a complete home is responsibility. But whether you have the ability to bear the weight of another person's life and growth. As parents of children, we should pay more attention to giving children and their future life goals and walking towards them.

4. Two people remarry, which is inconsistent with the target direction. It is better not to be together, that is mutual consumption, and at the same time pulling the children to mat. This is a kind of selfishness.