Du Jiang's Letter to Huo Siyan, Is Romance or Sex Important in Marriage? Psychologists say so.

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Du Jiang's Letter to Huo Siyan, Is Romance or Sex Important in Marriage? Psychologists say so.

Du Jiang and Huo Siyan have always been called model couples in the entertainment circle, and they never shy away from expressing their love for each other. No, a recent letter from Du Jiang to Huo Siyan was searched in Weibo.

"Whenever you are moved by the little things around you, you will make me believe that the world is really so beautiful and friendly."

"Any cloud flower is yellow, not as good as your plain face."

"My naive wife, if I can express my love for you in words, I will be the most famous writer in the world. Yes, I love you for no reason and no reason. "

Finally, I want to give my wife a poem by the English poet Eliot, which is so romantic.

Du Jiang's Letter to Huo Siyan, Is Romance or Sex Important in Marriage? Psychologists say so.

After reading this letter, Yunyin silently made this cup of sweet romance. I believe all women want to mass-produce a romantic, caring and successful husband Jiang in the world.

In fact, romance in marriage has a very big premise, that is, husband and wife love each other. We know that love in traditional Chinese characters is written like this. There is a big heart in the middle of love. In fact, this reminds us that love in marriage always keeps each other in mind.

When you put the other person in your heart, everything you do is what you think. When you remember what you think, romance actually comes into being.

You bought her the dress that she didn't want to buy when she looked at it again. He casually said, I haven't eaten your pickled fish for a long time, and there is another pickled fish he likes on the table at night.

He knows that the "love me or not" you often ask is actually a sign of inner insecurity, so he will give you a hug before you ask next time and sincerely tell you "I love you for no reason"

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Du Jiang's Letter to Huo Siyan, Is Romance or Sex Important in Marriage? Psychologists say so.

Every unhappy marriage has its own misfortune, and most happy marriages are the same. In most happy marriages, there may be no romantic vows, but there is a little throbbing in the days of daily necessities, which must be romantic.

Here, after being sprinkled with this wave of dog food, we also boldly use our brains to think about our married life. Is romance necessary in marriage? If you had to choose between romance and sex, which one would you choose?

Du Jiang's Letter to Huo Siyan, Is Romance or Sex Important in Marriage? Psychologists say so.

I saw some posts on the Internet asking whether asexual marriage should be divorced. Most netizens think that marriage can't be without sex, sex is the thickener of emotion, and sex can be used as an indispensable indicator to measure the quality of life and happiness index.

Some netizens combined their own experiences to emphasize that most individuals living in asexual marriages have indeed experienced different degrees of unhappiness, so they have doubts about marriage. It seems that sex is also essential in marriage.

Du Jiang's Letter to Huo Siyan, Is Romance or Sex Important in Marriage? Psychologists say so.

Yunyin once met a middle-aged female visitor, Xiao A, who had a short unhappy marriage before, so she unconsciously lowered her requirements when pursuing the latter marriage and married her deaf-mute husband.

Now the husband can be said to be a asexual marriage, and every sexual life starts at the request of Xiao, and then ends in a hurry. After giving birth to the child, the two began a 20-year period of sexual apathy.

When Xiao made up his mind to walk into the consulting room, the sadness caused by years of depression turned into tears. At the same time, under the long-term sexual repression, she seriously lacks self-identity. In her mind, she admits that she is "I am an incompetent person, I am an unlovable person ..."

Du Jiang's Letter to Huo Siyan, Is Romance or Sex Important in Marriage? Psychologists say so.

Freud, the originator of psychoanalytic psychology, has long emphasized the importance of sex and regarded libido (sexual desire) as the driving force of all our behavioral instincts. He believes that many times, the root of our neurosis is actually the excessive suppression of sex. Based on this, he particularly emphasized the great and even decisive influence of sexual instinct and libido on human behavior.

It is even believed that the thoughts, emotions and behaviors of healthy normal people and mental patients are obviously influenced by sexual instinct and libido. It's just that people are sometimes aware of this influence, sometimes unconsciously, but even those who are unconscious can be found through in-depth psychoanalysis.

From this point of view, sex is not only a thickener for the happiness of married life, but also an important magic weapon to maintain mental health.

Du Jiang's Letter to Huo Siyan, Is Romance or Sex Important in Marriage? Psychologists say so.

If you had to choose between romance and sex, which one would you choose? I think most women may choose the former, while men may choose the latter.

I remember Su Hei said in the article "Men should learn to love women and surpass love" that "the ultimate desire of men is sexual intercourse and negative tolerance, and the ultimate desire of women is love and the trust of Cha Yang." "Women think they can get love from men, and men think they can get sex from women. As a result, the man won, because getting sex is far easier than getting love. "

In fact, this sentence also tells us that the reasons that affect men and women to make different choices mainly come from the different physical structures of men and women. Men pay more attention to thinking with the lower body, and women need emotional ties more.

Du Jiang's Letter to Huo Siyan, Is Romance or Sex Important in Marriage? Psychologists say so.

Heidi, an American sexologist, conducted research in various ways, such as an open questionnaire, and published the Heidi Sexology Report on the basis of the research. Research shows that only a few women reach orgasm through "sexual intercourse", and most women only pretend to reach orgasm in front of men in sexual behavior.

Therefore, for women, sex in marriage is more like a condiment, without which it would be boring. But in the daily sense, sex life is actually very difficult to satisfy. Romance brings a woman an emotional experience, a feeling of being deeply loved, and a sense of security to prove that she is still in the other person's mind.

To sum up briefly here, in fact, whether it is romance or sex, it is actually a manifestation of the word "love". A loving marriage is a happy marriage. In a happy relationship, you should have both romance and sex. If you have to make a choice, men and women may have different choices.

what do you think? If you had to choose between romance and sex in marriage, what would you choose?

Du Jiang's Letter to Huo Siyan, Is Romance or Sex Important in Marriage? Psychologists say so.

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