How to do the ceremony of July 49 for the deceased relatives?

According to the Tao, there is actually no need to finish all seven now. Because in fact, after death, the soul of heaven and the soul of earth are scattered, and the soul of man is still there. Seven' o is calculated after death, and it will be scattered every seven days. Until July 7, a person's seven' o has been scattered. If this person has a heavy attachment to this world before his life, or has unfinished business, his soul will stay in our world and will not enter reincarnation. We try not to let him wander in our time and become an empty spirit of the past or an spirit bound by the world, which is not good for us or him.

After July 7th, I usually burn paper, houses, ingots and money for my ancestors every seven days, but I don't recommend burning paper directly in front of his grave. Because people have just died and are very weak, if you go directly to his grave to burn paper for him, it is easy for other ghosts to take it away. So now there is a saying that when people go to Tomb-Sweeping Day in the first year after death, they must visit their graves in Tomb-Sweeping Day, which is the reason. If there is a shrine to worship ancestors in your home, it is best to burn it in front of it, because with the protection of the family god, you can ensure that he can receive what you burn for him. If there is no ancestor worship, it is best to burn it at home, but pay attention to fire prevention! You can't burn it at the door, it will only be taken away by the ghost of vanity or the ghost of the earth.

Actually, it's no use burning that kind of money now. It will be useful to burn the money to him. Burning incense and lighting candles is definitely a must. In fact, burning incense, saving money and candles are the things that bring him back. Money is given in the hope that he can get it. It's better to burn down the house and give these to him, which will be better.

If you are religious or deeply religious, it would be better to ask a monk or Taoist to cross him over. Because of this, it can greatly reduce the possibility that he will become an empty spirit of the past and the spirit of the world. Because all of us don't know what kind of mentality he was at the moment of death.