Colleagues asked you why you didn't get a promotion and a raise. Should you go back?

This kind of topic belongs to workplace gossip. It is beyond my scope to recognize my role and responsibility. The duty of our work is to provide our own value for the enterprise in exchange for our own needs. These topics without nutrition are worthless to us. This is my business, not yours. Promotion and salary increase are things within their own boundaries, and have nothing to do with colleagues. He wants to know that all these things are caused by his immature understanding of encroaching on other people's boundaries. Everyone has boundaries, and we should know how to distinguish them so as not to bring trouble to others. On the contrary, others have violated our borders, so we should be aware of them and ignore them. Your colleague is not your leader, so you don't need to report to him. Questions and answers between colleagues are free. He has the freedom to ask questions, and I also have the freedom to answer and not answer. We don't need to face a forced reply like a leader.