Suggest confession

Love promotes the development of emotion, and the development trend of love also changes with the times. A small gesture, a look, has become a hint in love. How to use these hints to express love to the person you like?

Let's first understand what a hint is. Hint refers to "feelings, thoughts, intentions" and so on. In other words, hinting is an acceptable signal and a phenomenon of subconsciously accepting other people's information. It is suggested that confession can go further without hurting each other's current feelings, and it is more in line with the law of natural development of feelings. You can look at the following tips for suggesting confession.

The technique of suggesting repentance

I believe everyone has encountered this situation when pursuing girls: you gave a girl an expensive gift, and the girl was surprised to ask you, "Why are you so kind to me?" This is an obvious hint.

Most inexperienced boys will think in this situation: Yes, why am I so kind to her? It must be because I like her. So I just confessed. Note that if you confess, the pattern of boys and girls will change obviously at this time. Boys will show their cards and become more and more passive, and girls will have greater initiative. Once this pattern is formed, it is difficult to reverse it.

Therefore, as a social skill, suggestion is very powerful and can change the situation invisibly. Tell me an example that impressed me deeply. You can learn a lot of hinting skills in this example.

Used to be a student, male, temporarily called a. A has childhood friends. A likes her very much, but she has always maintained a very pure relationship between men and women and cannot develop further. So he complained to me and asked me if I wanted to confess to her. I said no, it's hard for her to agree with you at this time. After all, it will be embarrassing for the two sides to fight for so long, and even better, it will subtly affect her at ordinary times.

This problem is actually very common. The closer the relationship between men and women, the less likely it is to be poked. From a genetic point of view, this is human instinct. So I suggest that he should work harder at ordinary times.

First, he called her in the dead of night, and they chatted. Then A told a story, which was prepared in advance, about a couple around him. Later, he said he didn't know what was going on. Think about it. He somehow picked up the phone and called her.

Girls are sensitive and suspicious. The first point of doing this is to thank the other person's subconscious through story substitution and make her feel as if she is in love. The second point implies that he cares about her. The effect is to make girls think, can't tell the truth from the truth, and wonder, "Does he like me?"

Then he chose a time to invite his friends to have a picnic in the park and took her with him. They ate and talked about who was beautiful and virtuous. Then a buddy asked A who he liked and wanted to marry. A took a sip of water and answered carefully, saying that the person he didn't like already had someone he liked. At this time, A glanced at his childhood friends intentionally or unintentionally, and then turned away.

This is a hint of "encircling but not attacking". One is to make girls think wildly, and the other is to let girls accept A slowly. This is a love art that allows girls to increase their investment.

After eating, my sister said she was thirsty. A immediately went to buy water, which was delivered to her. A didn't say a word, her eyes kept staring at her sister, and her eyes were full of care and happiness. This is a behavioral suggestion. Suggest that your behavior is your boyfriend's behavior.

A took her for a walk by the lake and went to a place with many children. A pointed to a child and said, "How cute this child is!" "Then he sighed and said with emotion that it would be nice to have such a lovely baby in the future. This is a virtual hint of the future, suggesting that the other party is full of expectations for future love and even marriage life, and because of being around A, it is easy to project this feeling on A, resulting in illusion.

In this way, A repeatedly hinted for a month or two and successfully caught up with the girl she liked.

So to put it bluntly, a hint is to send a signal to the other party. The message revealed by this signal is "You are such a person". There is another skill in suggesting a speech, which is irony. Because people are rebellious. For example, when we were young, we went shopping with our father and passed the toy store. My father usually warns us not to touch this and that. But we all had an idea at that time, that is, "why don't I touch it?" I must touch it! "

If this principle is applied to chasing girls, it is often ironic. For example, I often say to my goal: "Don't fall in love with me", "Don't like me", "We are not suitable" and "I don't deserve this".

This gives the target an illusion that she has really fallen in love with me. Encourage her to invest in me. Then the effect is achieved.

In addition, it is also important to establish comfort before hinting. Imagine that you are walking on the road today, and suddenly a stranger says hello, and you will find him puzzling. But our friends say that the same content has completely different effects. We tend to trust familiar people, so we must first build trust. Just like the case of A just now, if both parties are unfamiliar, it is difficult for A to date a girl, let alone the next development. In addition, the following ways of suggesting confession can also be used for reference.

Suggest confession

1, love me, love my dog

I met her before I met her. She often takes her dog for a walk in the park at night, and then I become good friends with her, and then I become good friends with her. One day when we were sitting on a bench to rest, I patted the puppy and said to it; "Tell your master that you still need a male master to take care of you."

2. Love letters without words

That suggestion method was very popular in the 1980s, but I just didn't understand it at that time. One day, I received a puzzling letter, and the stamp was posted backwards. I recognized his handwriting on the envelope, but it was empty. Perhaps because he didn't receive an answer, he finally came up to me with a thick stack of white paper in his hand. "This time, you don't have to excuse your failure to reply."

Step 3 forecast

I like to tell others fortune with playing cards, so there are countless friends who come to see me for fortune telling, but I just don't count her, just tell her; "Your destiny is predestined." Naturally, she is not very satisfied. Later, I told her: "My fate is also decided by heaven, and we are destined." As a result, she didn't believe in fate, but she agreed with my prediction.

4. Hold hands and look at each other

In fact, I didn't understand the five elements, but I pretended to be a charlatan and grabbed her hand. "I'll show you my wealth." And nonsense. Then I held out my hand to show her. "Please pay attention to my palm print and your own palm print." She put me and her palm together in a serious way. "Do you know what this is called?" I pretended to be deep and said, "This is called a soul mate."

5. Who is more stupid than who?

She always calls me stupid because I always step on her feet when I dance. But I think she is more stupid than me. Eating is much easier than dancing, but she keeps stepping on my feet under the table. It's still silly to think about it now.

6. Borrow pearls and return them.

The love between the hero and heroine in novels often begins with borrowing books, but I didn't expect to meet them. Every time I find him, he will borrow books and return them to me carefully. Later, he put a note in the book, "I like you".

7. physical twins

She is very kind to me, but the girl's mind is hard to guess, and she always feels a little detached. Later, I specially invited an old classmate to go with me. Of course, she is a girl. When she appeared, we pretended to be close. She really believed it, tears almost came out, and turned and ran. I immediately caught up with her and said, "Don't be angry. I tried. Now I know I did it because I like you. " She smiled through tears. That's how our date started.

8, big fight

She is called "woman" because all the men around her have suffered from her flesh and blood. Except me, she is very polite to me and does whatever she says. Later, people stopped calling her "Xia Xia" because she suddenly became polite to the men around her. Besides me, I am often beaten by her alone.

9, the role of photos

I have liked her since I was a sophomore, but I don't know if she feels the same way. So I remake and enlarge a photo of her and put it on my desk. When she came to play, I asked her to sit down at the table, and then washed the apples out on an excuse. When she was leafing through the books and periodicals on the desk, she naturally saw the following photos of herself. She was surprised, but actually she was very happy. I can see that. At this time, I leaned down and apologized and said, "I'm sorry." I like doing this. If you are not happy, I will leave at once. " But she quickly said, "No, no, nothing. Actually, I have a better one at home. I'll bring it to you tomorrow! " "

Any of the above implied confession methods can be used. The key is to pay attention to a degree, whether the other party has a certain good impression on himself. Otherwise, it is unlikely to succeed whether it is implied confession or direct confession. Suggesting confession can also leave more possibilities for you to get along.