How can I become a person with strong opinions and choices?

Sister Hu Shuxin: Hello! I am a very independent person. For example, I think it's good to watch a movie, but I don't think it's good if my classmates say there's anything wrong with the movie. Besides, I like to follow the crowd. For example, I don't like playing volleyball at all, but most of my classmates joined the volleyball team, so I followed. I don't even know what I want when I buy clothes. My classmate said: it's really boring to be with you. What do you want to give me? Just like you didn't ask. Sister Shu Xin, I really feel useless. I want to ask you, how can you become a person with independent opinions and choices? Distressed cat: Hello! There is a movie called The Oval Story. I don't know if you have seen it. There is one person who is hard to choose. As soon as I entered the mall, I struggled about what to buy and what brand to buy, and finally I couldn't buy anything. Of course, it's a movie. It's a little exaggerated. In fact, there are many people who have no opinion about life and don't know how to choose. Your question is very common. In my opinion, for independence and choice, we should do 1. Read more and study more. Your brain is rich in knowledge, and there will be many successful experience examples for your reference, just like many staff officers. 2. Learn to listen. Sometimes, it is not advisable to go straight to the result and figure out how to choose before you know what it is and what to choose. Don't make a choice until you understand. This is a choice, not a blind choice.