Is everyone's fate doomed?

First of all, the family, parents and relatives you were born into have no choice. These people, their class, their knowledge and their connections will deeply affect your childhood and even your life.

Secondly, the body you were born with had no choice. His personality, appearance, talent and interests are mostly fixed, and few can be changed. And these will deeply affect your friends, study and grow.

Then, there are few classmates, friends, colleagues and teachers you can meet, and most of them are schools arranged by parents. Among so many classmates and friends you get along with, who you have a good relationship with and who you play with are closely related to the characteristics of your skin and flesh. Then you went to college. You think you are free, only to find that your roommates have no choice. Some dorms are full of bullies, while others are full of scum.

Then you graduated. You think you're free, but you find that it's very lucky to find a job and take exams. Many times it's not what job you can choose, but fate forces you to choose this job. Then at marriageable age, you think you are free, but you find it difficult to find a partner and there are so few resources!

Many times, it is not who you can choose, but fate that forces you to marry him or her, because it is the best choice within your conditions. Then at childbearing age, you think you are free, only to find that your offspring are just taking a chance and have no choice at all! How can other people's children be so powerful!

Time flies, and you will soon get old. You think you are free: I want to be healthy, I want to live a few more years, and I want to see more of the world. But you find that life span is the most uncontrollable. Yan told you to die in the third table, and your unique skills are less than those in the fifth table!