Recover the touching letter of ex-girlfriend (spend 30 thousand to find an emotional master to recover ex-girlfriend)

There used to be a movie called breakup guru.

It's about someone helping solve the problem of breaking up.

If there is such an emotional mentor in reality,

Can you believe it? Someone believed it.

result ...

On May 2nd, 20021year, Mr. Niu, a citizen, reported to Jinshan Branch of Shanghai Public Security Bureau that he had been defrauded of more than 34,000 yuan by an emotional consulting agency called "Shihua Education Consulting" in order to save his feelings with his girlfriend. You can't contact your ex-girlfriend after paying the money. According to Mr Niu, I had a problem with my girlfriend last July. After the breakup, WeChat and the phone were blacked out by the other party, which made it impossible to contact my girlfriend. In order to save this relationship, Mr. Niu searched online for emotional recovery skills, hoping to make his girlfriend change her mind. Soon, he was attracted by a slogan of "one-on-one personal tailor, 100% love recovery" and added the WeChat of the emotional recovery agency for consultation. After learning about Mr. Niu's basic situation in detail, the other party promised to arrange an exclusive "emotional expert" to communicate and persuade his ex-girlfriend to help him successfully repair his feelings, but Mr. Niu should not take the initiative to contact his ex-girlfriend or intervene in emotional recovery. Mr. Niu, whose ex-girlfriend got married while waiting hard, immediately paid a consulting fee of 3,280 yuan and signed an electronic contract with the other party. The agency arranged "emotional experts" to provide emotional counseling for Mr. Niu, and said that he had contacted his ex-girlfriend. Subsequently, the agency's "experts" asked Mr. Niu to transfer more than 30,000 yuan on the grounds of "discovering that his ex-girlfriend has a new boyfriend and needs further work guidance" and "the ex-girlfriend has been shaken and needs to contact her current boyfriend to end her relationship". Until April this year, Mr. Niu did not successfully get back together with his ex-girlfriend. When he contacted the agency, he was also perfunctory and did not give a clear answer. He realized that he had been cheated and called the police. The police investigation found that the so-called "psychological counselor" who contacted Mr. Niu did not obtain the relevant national qualifications, and the institution never got in touch with Mr. Niu's ex-girlfriend. When the police contacted his ex-girlfriend, they found that during Mr. Niu's emotional recovery, his ex-girlfriend was married. The average age of the victims is 29.4 years old. After tracking and careful investigation, the task force organized the police to go to Shandong to carry out the arrest operation on June 2, 20021year, destroying 5 criminal dens in one fell swoop and arresting 69 suspects including Xiao Mou.

The fraud gang was caught back in Shanghai.

Judging from the cases initially verified by the police, the victims are all over the country, with an average age of 29.4 years, most of whom are men aged 20 to 30. The youngest victim is only 17 years old, and the largest amount of fraud is 1.2 million yuan. More than 500 cases were initially verified, involving all parts of the country, involving more than 7 million yuan.

Wechat exchange records of criminal gangs

The police investigation found that the internal division of labor of the criminal gang was clear, deceptive and the modus operandi was hidden. After gaining the trust of the victim, the "emotional analyst" recommends emotional recovery services with different amounts according to the difficulty of the victim's emotional recovery, which are generally divided into five levels: 2880 yuan, 3880 yuan, 5800 yuan, 8800 yuan and 12800 yuan, and requires the victim to pay the fees. In fact, the gang has never contacted the victim's object.

Beautiful love is desirable, but when everyone is running on the road of chasing love, the liar has long thought of a routine to cheat you.

Example 1: A woman was cheated of nearly 50,000 yuan for holding her ex-boyfriend.

Liang Xiao (a pseudonym), a girl born after 1995, broke up with her boyfriend because of emotional problems. Liang Xiao, who is still obsessed with her ex-boyfriend after breaking up, tried many ways to save this relationship, but all failed in the end, because the other party had made up his mind. There's nothing I can do. Liang Xiao came across an article about doing Dharma on the Internet, with many successful cases of "practice". As if seeing the savior, she quickly added the other party's WeChat, confided her troubles to the "master" and asked for help.

The "Master" made a divination for Liang Xiao, indicating that the marriage line between her and her ex-boyfriend was very vague, and suggested a "ceremony" to fix it.

(Simulated dialogue) At this point, Liang Xiao just wants to save her ex-boyfriend. After paying the "Master" about 14000 yuan, she sent all the information about her and her ex-boyfriend's date of birth, address and so on, waiting for the "Master" to do it. A week later, the "master" told Miss Liang that the effect of "practice" was not very good and asked her if she had committed any taboos. Miss Liang recalled that she broke the precept of eating meat, so she paid 65,438 yuan+0,000 yuan for "admitting her mistake". ...

(The victim's partial transfer record) In this way, the "master" collected about 48,000 yuan from Miss Liang for 14 times in the name of paying off debts, cutting peach blossoms and releasing flowers. The ex-boyfriend still didn't want to get back together, but the "master" kept asking him to pay, and Liang Xiao found out that he was cheated and immediately called the police for help.

Case 2: A woman was cheated of 10 thousand yuan for "saving love"

Xiao Xin broke up with her boyfriend for half a year, but she still can't get out of the shadows. All she can think about is getting back together. One day, Xiao Xin saw some rehabilitation instruction videos on the video platform. The teacher in the video claims to be a senior tutor in the field of emotional counseling. He has rich rehabilitation experience and can pay for guidance. In the composite blueprint sketched by the teacher, Xiao Xin instantly had hope. Although I managed to save more than 1000 yuan, my feelings were priceless, so Xiao Xin decided to give it a try. But after paying the fee, the teacher threw Xiao Xin an electronic material, euphemistically called "Intimacy" and other love guides, so that Xiao Xin could study it carefully and write his reading experience within one week.

Fraud gang script

But Xiao Xin is bent on getting back together. How can she read and write? I just hope the teacher will give me a plan as soon as possible. In the face of Xiao Xin's doubts and questions, the tutor's response to the news is getting slower and slower, and it is becoming more and more perfunctory. Only then did Xiao Xin realize that she might have been cheated. She looked it up on the Internet and found that similar emotional recovery services were basically unreliable. My boyfriend didn't get it back, and 10000 yuan was also called to Shui Piao. Needless to say, liars are all designed routines. What about the "emotional recovery" service on the market? In fact, due to the irregular market, such services have caused a lot of consumer disputes.

The Morning News conducted an in-depth investigation on this: How chaotic is the "emotional redemption" market?

The investigation by the Morning Post reporter found that in this expensive emerging market, there are many gray behaviors such as invasion of privacy, tracking and monitoring, deception and cajoling. In order to persuade customers to spend money, "emotional masters" even ignore common sense and peddle abnormal views on marriage and love ... In order to get close to this emerging industry, the Morning Post reporter consulted the top search engine in the name of seeking "emotional recovery" service (hereinafter referred to as "cherishing emotions"), Shanghai Minzhen Business Information Consulting Co., Ltd. (hereinafter referred to as "Minzhen Consulting"), WeChat official account communication agency, Shanghai Wei Qing Network Technology Co., Ltd. ● Service confusion: "Separation of mistresses" should sneak into mistresses' life. "If you don't want a divorce, we'll take a job as a separated mistress. Experts from "Wei Qing" made such suggestions immediately after learning that the reporter hoped to make emotional recovery for the derailed husband.

"Separation Little Three" unexpectedly sent an unannounced visit team.

According to the expert, the so-called "separation of mistresses" means that the company sends an unannounced visit team to enter the lives of the other party and mistresses under false identities. The expert vowed to tell reporters that the specific operation process is not necessary. At present, 6.5438+0.7 million cases have been successfully operated. After discovering the reporter's doubts, the expert actively shared the successful cases of "dividing into small three" in the past, including tracking and monitoring, deception and other means. "Is this really legal?" The reporter questioned, "Where is this illegal?" The so-called experts have repeatedly stressed that "we will ensure that it is within a reasonable and legal scope." China's Civil Code stipulates that no organization or individual may infringe upon others' right to privacy by spying, harassing, revealing or making public. Lawyer Dong Shi of Shanghai Shentong Law Firm also reminded consumers that in the process of "emotional redemption" and other activities, they should also pay attention to the legitimacy of their actions and not step on the legal red line. Some "emotional recovery" institutions use follow-up investigations to disturb the peace of life of others, which has obviously violated the privacy rights of third parties. ● pricing confusion: often asking hundreds of thousands of dollars, success or failure is at stake. It is quite exaggerated that no matter what kind of "emotional recovery" service, the price is very high, and consumers have to pay a lot of money regardless of success or failure. Some "emotional recovery" services have the problem of price confusion.

The price of "separation of small three" is often several hundred thousand yuan.

"In your case, it usually costs more than 300,000, almost 400,000." The so-called expert of "Wei Qing" company said that the remuneration of 200,000 heads of state should be paid before the "three points" began. "If it is not successful, will this 200,000 yuan come back?" The reporter asked. The so-called experts bluntly said, "If you don't pay, what we don't do, success and failure are inevitable expenses." ● Concept confusion: the concept deviates from the normal concept of marriage and love. In the "emotional recovery" service, many organizations or individuals have suggested that "teachers" will be arranged to help the parties improve themselves and save their partners. However, unlike the strict scientific system that normal psychological counseling needs to follow, the concept of "self-improvement" given by these institutions often deviates from the normal concept of marriage and love. "In order to satisfy their real desires, women must yield to power." "Women's rights are a deadly' thought virus'." "All the misfortunes of the family come from the original sin of women." "A relationship doesn't need men and women to understand each other." ...... "Chris" has always claimed to be a "coach", claiming that the relationship between the parties and their partners can be changed by changing their minds. The so-called curriculum is to instill these deformed views on love and marriage and so-called skills. Another extreme view of love and marriage is reflected in the remarks of "peacekeeping experts". In order to promote the "emotional recovery" business, they tried to convince the parties that their partners were innocent, and all the mistakes originated from the "mistress". ● Confusion of rules: failure to sign an agreement or serious imbalance of rights is also a serious problem in the "emotional recovery" industry. Individual practitioners like "Chris" did not sign any service agreements with consumers when selling services. Organizations such as "People's Consultation" and "Wei Qing" will sign service agreements with consumers, but these agreements are either dead letter or basically to protect the interests of businesses themselves.

"Emotional redemption" often does not sign an agreement or the rights are seriously unbalanced.

Expert: The chaos of "emotional redemption" needs to be standardized.

Reporter Fang Fang Hongkou Mental Health Center Director of Psychology Department said that the existing services such as "separation of mistresses" and "emotional recovery" in the market are completely different from the traditional marriage and family psychotherapy. In fact, these services are not within the scope of psychological counseling services. "It's more like a remedial class, but it's definitely not psychological marriage and family therapy."

The most expensive chicken soup for the soul is written in the handbook "Harvesting leeks in the search for marriage by unscrupulous emotional counselors". The feeling of "real fragrance" is that things between the two sides need to be solved through communication, blindly looking for a master's approach or looking for an emotional tutor to save it, and the result may only be to pay IQ tax. Please cherish love when it comes, and be calm when it leaves. If there is a way to save it, it must be you, not an expert or a master. Although love is never lonely, it is absolutely useless to change your heart by routine.

Source | Morning News Comprehensive 02 1 video, news CT, etc.