What is the reason for your separation in love?

If life is just like the first sight, why draw a sad fan in the autumn wind?

When love happens, everything is so beautiful, and each other has its own light in our eyes. We always want to show the perfect side, but with each other's familiarity and getting along, we gradually feel resentment, all kinds of dissatisfaction, quarrels and misunderstandings swept through, and the initial beauty of love gradually faded away.

Couples can't get along without contradictions. The key depends on how to deal with it, whether it is a broken jar or a way to maintain it, and negotiate with each other to find the best solution. But we all know that you can't calm down when you really face the problem.

Each of us should learn to reflect on our own problems and what we have not done well in love.

In retrospect, the fundamental reason for breaking up in love before was the deep fear of love and marriage. One is that I don't believe that my marriage will last forever, and the other is that I feel that my life is quite good now.

My parents don't understand this. I'm still having a cold war with them. I think they are selfish and just want me to get married, whether I am happy or not. My parents also think I am selfish, so I know I am happy alone and don't understand the pain of being a parent.

I didn't realize the meaning of marriage until I saw what Guangyao's mother said to him in the movie "Don't ask questions" last night.

Guangyao's mother said to him: We think you can enjoy the fun of life, such as studying in thousands of books and going to Wan Li Road, such as marrying a girl you like and having children. Be careful not to give us children, but give them to yourself, so that you can enjoy the fun of being a parent.

Seeing this, my heart suddenly softened. Yes, my parents are not selfish, but selflessly hope that I can experience the integrity of life. They don't want my life to be too monotonous.

I began to ask myself: Do I really want to experience the fun of being a parent?

The inner answer is yes, but there will still be some fear and uncertainty.

But I know that I will become stronger and stronger, I can face all the experiences in my life, and I also believe that I have the ability to manage my married life well.

I hope you will have a happy and beautiful love and marriage when you see this answer.