People regard you as a fool.

People treat you like a fool. As the saying goes, people who treat others as fools are really stupid. In reality, not everyone can observe words and deeds and accurately identify other people's real thoughts. Others are fans of the authorities. What do people think of you, fool?

People regard you as a fool. You can be honest, but don't let others treat you like a fool.

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The forbearance of inertia is wrong, and you will blindly have no patience to go offline. This is a sign of inferiority. If you want others to respect you, you have to set a standard for yourself first. Don't just be patient, be clear about your bottom line, and try to maintain your circle when others infringe on your rights and interests. Setting a boundary for your personality is a kind of protection for yourself. Tell those who touch your bottom line clearly.

Sometimes you bite the bullet and promise others something you obviously don't want to do. You can't refuse repeated requests from others. In fact, at this time, you can clearly tell others what you think and why you don't want to do it. Euphemistic rejection of him is a small coup for dealing with people. You solved a difficult problem with your high EQ, which will be a turning point in your growth.

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Sometimes you will tell your family and friends that you are dissatisfied with a person, but it is best not to do so. Doing so will only create more and more negative energy, which friends and family are used to maintain and love. You can only convey love to them, but reduce negative energy. Refuse what you don't want to do in person, and don't complain afterwards. This will only immerse yourself in a bad mood and you can't get out.

If you do something that makes the other person dissatisfied, then you should ask the other person to say it directly. There is no need to beat around the bush in doing sth. The most taboo thing for people is cheating behind their backs, because this is the behavior of villains. Be fair and square, and don't put yourself in an awkward position casually. Therefore, it is not terrible to produce contradictions. What is terrible is the serious consequences caused by the continuous fermentation of contradictions.

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Learn to express your thoughts in time. If you don't speak up, you may have disputes or contradictions when you do things. Good communication has a win-win opportunity. Communication can be said to be the best bridge between people. Many times, the contradiction between two people is caused by poor communication. Sometimes the contradiction between two people is because they don't understand what the other person wants to express. You can't read other people's words by your own guess. I will miss you if there is no other meaning.

Patience is a good quality, but it is not always tolerated. Forbearance means humility or tolerance. When you find that you tolerate someone, you get joy, but when you find that you have patience with someone, it means that you don't like this person. So there is really no need to embarrass yourself, there is still a long way to go in life. There is still a long way to go. Don't waste your emotions for irrelevant people. If you don't like it, leave. Just leave.

Emotional message: kind people should be treated gently. If you meet a malicious person, it only means that he doesn't want to be nice to you at all. Or he is not a kind and gentle person at all. How can a gentle person scold others or make small moves behind their backs? If you can't stand it, just say so, and don't embarrass yourself in trivial matters.

People treat you like a fool. Stay away from these three kinds of people, they are treating you like a fool.

0 1, stay away from people who push their luck.

You must stay away from people who push their luck in life.

My uncle borrowed a lot of money from our family more than ten years ago. When we first borrowed it, we were going to give it to them.

But they think we have to ask them for money, so they avoid us.

At that moment, our family was disappointed. Disappointed is not that their family values money very much, but that their family values money more than our family's affection.

Maybe at that time, they felt that we were no longer needed, so they were very cold to us.

However, something unexpected happened in the sky, and then his child broke his arm. At this time, they came to borrow money again.

We let bygones be bygones and gave them the money without hesitation.

After this incident, they gradually alienated us.

Everyone thinks that their family will be very happy in the future and will never need help from others again.

However, I didn't expect that my aunt had a heart attack last year and needed to spend a lot of money on treatment. At this time they came to our house to borrow money.

My mother often says to me:

"To be a man, you must have a bottom line, but there are no more than three."

A person who has no love in his heart and pushes his luck takes it for granted that you help them every time. After using you, he throws you aside and pulls you back when using you.

If it weren't for relatives, such people would have been rejected by our family.

So when my aunt had an operation, our family helped them, but my mother said it was the last time.

People must stay away from people who push their luck, what's more, such people have no love at all. After you helped them, you got indifference instead of gratitude.

This coldness makes you feel cold, and then you don't know how to help others in the future, and you don't know whether to hug others again.

People who push their luck and don't know how to be grateful treat you like a fool.

02. Stay away from people who don't give you face in crowded places.

Some people seem to be kind to you on the surface, but they never give you face when there are many people.

One of my girlfriends said to me:

"My good friend is usually very kind to me, but today at a trade fair, because I don't know a piece of embroidery, she began to criticize me. After the criticism, I met with you and told me the principle of embroidery. I feel very embarrassed today. "

Some people seem to regard you as a friend, but in fact they regard you as a fool.

In a crowded place, you should know how to give yourself face. Such a person is someone who respects you and thinks you are a person with personality charm.

A person sees what you don't know in a crowded place, and shows his knowledge level through your ignorance. Such people just want to find their sense of superiority through you.

People need face, especially in crowded places. The other party knows how to show off in crowded places, and naturally understands how important it is to face in crowded places.

People who know the importance of face and don't give you face have no respect in their hearts.

In real life, we often see such a phenomenon:

It seems that one person is very kind to another person and regards the other person as his good friend, but when he gets to a crowded place, he forgets the other person. Sometimes he doesn't like the clothes the other person is wearing, sometimes he is not satisfied with what the other person says, and makes it difficult for him everywhere in crowded places.

There is no doubt that such people just regard you as a fool and just lend you to show off.

Such a person will leave you sooner or later, you might as well stay away from him yourself.

Stay away from people who often ask you to help him, but he never helps you.

There are often such people in society:

You are always asked to help him, so you often help this person. But when you need his help, he won't help you, although it is easy for him.

Many people always want you to help them when love is in trouble, but when you are in trouble, he is the first to leave you behind.

Goodness and reconciliation are mutual. If a person thinks you can help him unconditionally, he can leave at any time when you are in trouble.

There is no doubt that such people must treat you like a fool.

He thinks you are a man without judgment. Even if others are not good to you, you will still be good to others. In his mind, you are a good man and a fool at worst.

Although when you help someone, you don't want others to help you later, so you will help him.

But if you help someone, when you are in trouble, this person will not come back to help you, but will make you feel even worse.

Such people, please stay away!

In an adult, the most successful way of life is to know how to screen contacts. Some people deserve deep friendship, but others must stay away.

Although it is said that one more friend is one more way, some people are better off without you.

People regard you as a fool. People who talk to you like this treat you as a fool.

(1) "I'm doing it for your own good"

This sentence is a typical "emotional blackmail". Communication between people should convince others with truth and facts. But this sentence is just the opposite. It's annoying to force you with "feelings".

The so-called "I do it for your own good" just wants you to obey his opinion. People who talk like this actually think that you are a "fool" if you don't listen to him.

Moreover, people who talk like this are often justified. They think they have experience, vision and foresight, and all they say is good advice, and you are the "stubborn" person.

(2) "You will understand later"

Life is full of all kinds of contempt. The most common thing is that you are immature, naive, superficial and even think you are a fool.

However, few people will tell you directly: "You are so naive". They often say "you will understand later".

The subtext of this sentence is: you are immature and naive. When you are as mature as I am, you will naturally understand. People who talk like this are really naive.

(3) "I swear"

From a psychological point of view, this kind of emphatic language is often used to cover up a person's "guilty conscience". People who speak like this are often lying.

If a thing needs to be guaranteed by the weak words of "I swear" and "I promise", it must be unreliable.

If you still believe in this language, then you really become a fool in the eyes of everyone.

Conclusion:

Everyone should have heard this sentence more or less. Think carefully, have you found that others are "cheating" you? Next time you hear it, don't believe it.