"Family Fan" Family Fan Volume 4 (3)

After the original text, Emperor Xiaowen of Wei was very young. When I was four years old, I wrote a essay and suffered from carbuncle. The emperor sucked pus himself.

After translation, Emperor Xiaowen of Wei was more filial than ordinary people since he was a child. At the age of four, my father Xianwen suffered from carbuncle, and Emperor Xiaowen personally sucked pus for his father.

It turns out that the Northern Qi Dynasty was filial to the emperor, but in essence it was filial. The queen mother was unprepared and went out to live in Nangong. It's been almost ten days since the emperor acted improperly, his face degenerated and his clothes were stripped off. More than 500 steps from the temple to the Nangong, the cock crows, still there; Come and go without hitchhiking. The queen mother ate more bitter, slept outside the pavilion, ate, drank and took drugs, and did everything herself. The queen mother is always heartbroken, but she can't bear it. Before the emperor set up the curtain, he pinched his palm with his claws and blood flowed out of his sleeve.

This can be said to be a disease from the mouth.

The Northern Qi Dynasty showed filial piety to the emperor and was very filial by nature. The queen mother is unwell and lives in Nangong. Emperor Xiao Zhao was very sad. He can't walk straight, his face is haggard, and he can't take off his clothes for nearly ten days. The palace is more than 500 steps away from Nangong. Emperor Zhao Di went to the Nangong to meet the Queen Mother at dawn and didn't return to the palace until dawn. Walking around, never taking the bus. When the Queen Mother's illness got a little worse, Emperor Zhao slept outside her bedroom door. The queen mother's diet and medicine were served by Emperor Zhao himself. Empresses are often heartbroken and unbearable. Emperor Zhao stood in front of her bed, holding his palm with his fingers and bleeding from his cuffs. In other words, when parents are sick, children will express their worries.

The dutiful son has been in mourning for three years.

The original "Jing" said: the filial son lost his relatives, crying without mourning, courtesy without words, clothing without comfort, joy without joy, food without reluctance, this sad feeling is also. If you eat for three days, the parishioners will not die, hurt or die. This is also the politics of saints. After three years of mourning, the people have an end. For it, the coffin was covered, and Chen Qi mourned it. Mourn, send it, predict that its house will be safe, be a ancestral hall, and enjoy it with ghosts. Sacrifice in the Spring and Autumn Period, think about that time. Love and respect in life, sadness in death, the foundation of life and death, the meaning of life and death, and the death of a dutiful son. A gentleman can't help but commit suicide because of bereavement. The funeral is prepared in the prescription book and cannot be recorded.

The translation of The Book of Filial Piety says: The dutiful son's parents died, crying at the top of his lungs, losing his dignity, not paying attention to literary talent, feeling uneasy when wearing beautiful clothes, unhappy when listening to music, and not feeling sweet when eating delicious food. These are all expressions of sadness. Eating three days after parents' death is to educate people not to hurt the living by mourning the dead. Sad and haggard, but not life-threatening This is advocated by saints. The mourning period should not exceed three years, which shows people that there should be a certain period of mourning. Children should prepare coffins, coffins and shroud for their dead parents and hold funeral ceremonies; It is necessary to display various sacrificial vessels to express condolences; At the funeral, you should beat your chest and cry; Put a coffin, predict good or bad, and choose a cemetery; Build a ancestral temple to worship the dead. Children are sacrificed when they are old, pinning their thoughts on their dead parents. Children should respect their parents when they are alive, and mourn after their parents die. Children have fulfilled their responsibilities and fulfilled their obligations of providing for the aged and dying. The dutiful son also completed the great task of serving his parents. The way a gentleman mourns his parents is to do his duty and try to do it well. The etiquette that should be followed in funeral service is quite detailed in ancient books, so I won't elaborate here.

Confucius said:? Less honest Dalian is good at mourning, three days are not idle, March is puzzled, three years are sad, and the son of Dongyi is also. ? Gao held a funeral for his relatives and shed blood for three years, but he never saw his teeth. This gentleman thinks it is difficult.

Confucius said:? Both Shao Lian and Dalian are good at mourning. I didn't slack off in three days, and I didn't slack off in three months. I was sad for a whole year, but I was sad for three years. ? Shaolian and Dalian are both sons of Dongyi. Gao Zi, a disciple of Confucius, mourned for three years and never laughed. Even those very polite gentlemen think it is difficult to do this.

It turned out that Yan Dingshan died in mourning and the emperor was embarrassed. If he asks, he will get it; There are funerals, see if there are any, and; It's generous to bury it. Do it or rest.

Lu people are good at mourning. He died acting like an emperor, as if he wanted something but didn't get it. At the end of the funeral, I looked at it as if I was eager to go with someone, but I couldn't; After the burial, there was no sound, as if the dead could not be kept, and there was complete despair.

Shao Qing Su Xiang, the former leader of the Tang Dynasty, was killed by his father, and Zong Rui was reinstated as assistant minister of the Ministry of Industry. Li Rizhi, the envoy, sent a message. Rizhi finally sat down without saying anything, saying: I can't bear to talk when I see his sadness, for fear that he will die. ? Most importantly, listen to its final system.

Su Xiang, a young woman in the Tang Dynasty, lost her father. It happened that Tang Ruizong wanted to appoint him as Assistant Minister of Industry, but he refused. The emperor sent Li Rizhi to proclaim the imperial edict. Li Rizhi went to Sue's home and sat there without saying a word from beginning to end. He went back and told the emperor. I think he is too sad and haggard to say this again for fear that he will faint. ? So the emperor allowed him to be filial for three years.

Haan Lee, the son of Zuo Shu, is the ambassador of Hebei. He was worried about his mother and returned to his post. Every state and county has said nothing except official business. Vegetarian food and water, rest on the floor. Make back, please dismiss the official, and finally lose the system.

Daizong promised it by destroying the barren land. I tried my best to mourn for my loved ones. At that time, Xiaogan was famous for being a late bloomer and there were many people in the world. This can be said to be more sad than death.

Zuo Shu's son Haan Lee was appointed as the ambassador of Hebei Province when his mother died, but now he is appointed as the ambassador of Hebei Province. Every time he went to a county, he never spoke again except for business.

Eat only plain tea, drink some boiled water and sleep on the ground every day. After returning from missionary work, he asked to be removed from office and was ready to go back to mourn his mother. Daizong hurt his heart because of his excessive sadness, so he allowed it. Many people can do their best to mourn for their parents, moved by the filial piety at that time, and leave a name for future generations. It can be said that mourning can try to express a person's grief.

Sacrifice should be serious.

The primitive ancient rituals are detailed and cannot be quoted completely. Confucius said:? Sacrifice is like being here. ? A gentleman dies like a life, a villain dies like a life. After fasting for three days, I saw what I was doing. On the day of the sacrifice, joy and sadness were half, and Pierer was full of sadness. Do everything outside and do everything inside; If you enter the room, you will see it; When Zhou was still at Ye's house, there was his voice. Listen to the door, there will be a sigh. It is the filial piety of the late king, who never forgets his eyes, never stops talking, and is addicted to his heart. Love will survive, care about Do not forget your initiative mind, and my husband will not respect it! Qi Qi depends on his respect, happiness depends on his loyalty, not on what he wants. The poem says:? God's thinking is not thinking, but thinking. ?

This is also roughly.

The translation of ancient rituals is very detailed, so we can't quote them all. Confucius said:? Sacrifice is like the resurrection of the dead ? A gentleman sacrifices to the dead just like serving the living, fasting for three days, and then visiting the dead who want to fast and sacrifice. On the day of paying homage to the dead, joy and sadness are equally divided. You must be happy to pay tribute to the dead, but you must be very sad in your heart. Try your best to sacrifice outside and be sincere inside; Enter the temple where the gods are placed, as if seeing ancestors sitting there; After worship, walking out of the door is like hearing their voices; After going out, I seemed to hear their sighs again.

Therefore, the late king respected his relatives, their images never left his eyes, their voices never left his ears, and their appetites and hobbies remained in his heart forever. Because of his love, the person he loves will live in his heart forever; Because of sincerity, the voices and smiles of loved ones can be clearly displayed in the eyes and ears. How can we not respect the relatives who live in our hearts and float in front of us like this? Respect is a solemn gesture, piety is a kind gesture, and it is attentive and thoughtful. I only hope that the dead who died can enjoy their own thoughts. The Book of Songs says:? God is everywhere and unpredictable, and the slightest negligence will be punished. ? This is its general idea.

Prince Meng and shu ke Li Dan, who are over 70 years old, enjoy the ancestral exam and are still close to washing utensils. People, on the other hand, disobey and think that there is no way to achieve admiration. This is a sacrifice, which makes it strict.

Prince Shu Meng's guest Li Dan is over 70 years old. When he offered sacrifices to his grandfather, he personally cleaned the sacrificial vessels. Someone wanted to wash it for him, but he didn't allow it, thinking that it couldn't pin his thoughts on it. In other words, the sacrifice should be solemn.

I dare not forget my parents in every move and speech.

The original "Jing" said: the parents who suffer from skin damage dare not. Filial piety begins.

The book of filial piety says that a person's body, hair and skin are given by his parents, and his children dare not destroy them at will, which is the beginning of filial piety to their parents.

If you are sick, call your brother:? Enlightenment to the foot, enlightenment to the hand. The poem says:? Facing the political situation, I trembled all over, like walking on thin ice in the face of a deep abyss. ? I occasionally know the boy who has no husband. ?

Ceng Zi was ill. He called all his disciples together and said, My body is influenced by my parents, so I dare not damage it casually. You open my quilt, I want to see my hands and feet. The Book of Songs says:? Facing the political situation, I trembled all over, like walking on thin ice in the face of a deep abyss. ? From now on, I know how to educate you on this issue. ?

Le Zhengzi went to class in spring and hurt her foot. She was still worried for months. The younger brother said: Master's feet are failing, and he can't get out for months. He's still worried. Why? Le Zhengzi Chunyue:? Kindness, as you asked! Kindness, as you asked! I heard about Ceng Zi and Ceng Zi heard about the Masters. What is born in the sky and raised on the ground are all man-made. Parents are born and children are returned, which can be described as filial piety; Don't lose your body, don't humiliate it, it can be said that it is all. So a gentleman dares to forget his filial piety, and now he forgets it, so he is worried. I dare not forget my parents at every move, and I dare not forget my parents at once. It's an old road, but it's not a road to forget your parents. It's a boat that can't swim, and it's a danger with parents' bones. If you dare not forget your parents when you speak, it's because bad words don't come out of your mouth and angry words don't go against the sky. It is filial piety not to humiliate one's body or one's relatives. ?

Le Zhengzi hurt her foot when she went to class in spring. He hasn't been out for months, and his face is still worried. His disciple said:? Teacher, your foot has already healed. You haven't been out for months. Why are you still worried? Le Zhengzi Chun said:? Good question! Good question! I once heard Ceng Zi say, and Ceng Zi also heard Confucius say: Between heaven and earth, several people are the noblest. Your parents gave birth to you completely, so you should cherish yourself and protect yourself completely. This is filial piety. Don't insult and damage your body casually, this is the whole. Therefore, even if a gentleman only takes half a step, he dare not forget his filial piety. I don't pay attention to filial piety now, and I hurt my foot. I'm worried! ?

People dare not forget that their parents gave them their bodies, and they dare not forget their contact with their parents as long as they speak. It is precisely because I dare not forget that my body is influenced by my parents that I will not walk around crooked, and I will take a boat instead of swimming when I am near the water. This is something I dare not risk my life with my parents. I dare not forget my parents as soon as I open my mouth, so I don't say anything unpleasant, and I don't have to bear my own anger and injury. It can be said that filial piety is realized without insulting the body given by parents and without humiliating parents.

Save your parents from danger and go through fire and water.

What should I do if my loved ones are in danger? Do you worry about your health instead of saving it? Yue: Not that it is natural. The dutiful son pays homage to his parents' bones, but he dare not hurt them safely. Even if he went to the soup fire without saying anything, he saved his loved ones from danger! In ancient times, many people died for their loved ones.

Someone asked: What if parents and relatives are in danger? Are children also worried about their health and not saving them? Answer: I can't understand it like this. The dutiful son usually doesn't even dare to hurt the body given by his parents; When it's time to give my life for my duty, even if I go through fire and water, I will not hesitate to save my parents and relatives in times of crisis! Since ancient times, many people have given their lives for their parents and relatives.

At the end of the Jin Dynasty, Pan Zong, a native of Wucheng, was attacked by Sun En. Comprehensive and father * * * to avoid thieves, old is late, thieves turn to force. Prediction summary:? I can't go, you can leave, but you are lucky not to die. ? He sat on the ground, greeted the thief and kowtowed. Father is old and begging for a living. ? When the thief arrived, I also invited the thief to say: I can walk when I was young, so I won't go today. The dutiful son is willing to die, but he can live. ? A thief always keeps his father under his stomach because of his arrogance. The thief's comprehensive targeting top, every four creations, was boring at that time. A thief came nearby and said, You did great things, and this son saved his father with his death. What can you kill? Killing a dutiful son is a bad omen. ? Thieves stop, fathers and sons are exempt.

Pan Zong, a native of Wucheng at the end of Jin Dynasty, was catching up with Sun En's insurrection and attacking villages and towns. Pan Zong and his father Pan Yi fled the bandits together, but because Pan Yi was old and inconvenient to move, the bandits chased Pan Yi. Pan said to his son, General Pan. I can't leave. If you run fast, you can escape. We can't all wait here to die. ? At this time, Pan Qian was too tired to run, so he had to sit on the ground. General Pan stopped in front and kowtowed to the thief who rushed over. My father is old, please spare his life. ? When the bandits arrived, Pan Yi also asked the bandits: My son is still young. He could have run away, but he didn't leave for my father. He is a dutiful son who saved his father by dying. Please spare him. ? The thief cut Pan Yi with a knife, and General Pan held his father down. The thief beheaded General Pan, who was stabbed four times in a row and then fainted. At this moment, a thief ran from the side and said, Your Excellency has done great things. How can this man kill his father with death? It is unlucky to kill a dutiful son. ? So the thief stopped cutting Panzong, and the father and son lived together.

The original volley was born by a captain, Yu Daocheng. He drifted to Jiaozhou, and Daocheng was still in his infancy. And the dragon, knowing it, seeks to help the Suining government in Guangzhou. It's a long way to the government, but at your own expense. I went to the state, and I looked for my mother, but I couldn't get it after many years. I cry day and night. When I tried the village, it suddenly began to rain at dusk, but I stopped at home.

Negative salary is also paid outside, and the Tao is also moving. Because you visit it, it is your mother. So he fell down and cried. Go far and approach, and you will cry.

When his biological mother came to Jiaozhou across the ocean, Yu Daocheng, the captain of the volleyball team, was still a baby. Knowing this when I grew up, I asked to be an assistant in Suining House in Guangzhou. After taking office, Zuo Fu was still far from Jiaozhou, so he packed his bags and ventured to Jiaozhou. When he arrived in Jiaozhou, he looked for his mother, but he couldn't find it for a whole year. He cried day and night. Once he entered a village, it was dark, but it rained heavily, so he lived in a house. After a while, an old woman came back from outside with some firewood on her back. There seems to be a feeling in her heart. He asked if the old woman was really his biological mother. So the mother and son met again and wept bitterly. There is no one who came from all directions to watch without tears.

Liang Xiangzhou's original book is Jiyi, and his father Tian Jianyuan ordered it in his hometown. He was falsely accused by officials and arrested Yi Tingwei. Fifteen years ago, I cried on the road and prayed to the public. Everyone seen by pedestrians is in tears. Although his father is innocent, he is ashamed of being an official news. This is a kind of virtual remorse and the crime should be great. I heard the drums and begged my father for mercy. Emperor Wu's admiration for differences is still based on his naivety and suspicion of being taught by others. He urged Tingwei Cai Fadu to take it seriously.

Testimony is to return to the temple, Chen Huihui is honored. He asked sternly: I begged my father to die, and I have promised, so I should be punished. However, the knife sees the drama, and the trial can die. And children and children, if they are not so ambitious, they must be taught. Who is the name? Listen to Xu if you have any regrets. ? Right? Although the prisoner is weak, don't you know the terrible death? Taking care of my younger brothers, I'm just a long-term prisoner, and I can't bear to see my father sentenced to death. Therefore, it is necessary to break the chest and do everything at work. Today, I want to die, and I want to believe in my bones. This is not a detail, how to teach? It is more gentle and seductive to know the statutes, and the language says: the Lord knows that Zunhou is innocent and should be released. When you look at Ming Xiu, you are a good boy. If I resign today, I am glad that my father and son are from Tongji. Xi this wonderful year, bitter soup wok? Say: All ants are still precious to their lives, and the situation lies in people! Do you want to clean? But if the father hangs deeply, he will be punished. Therefore, I miss my servant and hope to prolong my father's life. ? When I first met a prisoner, the prison was shackled according to law. When a small person is praised, he must take off his second weapon. Fu Yi listened and said:? Can the death of my father reduce death row? I can't believe that my testimony of not being disarmed was heard. The emperor is his father and son. Yin of Danyang asked him to live in Tingwei's story and in various villages, hoping to show pure filial piety at the beginning of the year. Say: Wang Yin! How to measure thinness? It is true that the husband's father humiliated his son's death, but if he has the face to do so, it is because his father bought a name. What a pity! ? Refuse to stop. This chapter was specially written by the author.

When his father Tian Jian just started to be a township official, he was framed and arrested by Ting Wei. Ji Zhi was only fifteen years old at this time. He cried in the street and pleaded for his father in front of some officials. Pedestrians on the road cried when they saw it.

His father didn't commit any crime, but he was ashamed to be interrogated by the jailer, so he deliberately confessed, culpable of punishment and was beheaded. Ji went alone to beat Deng and beg for his father's death. At that time, Liang Wudi was quite surprised at the young man, but he thought he was just a child. Probably someone was instigating him, so he ordered Tingwei Cai Fadu to interrogate him severely to find out the truth. The statue returned to the yamen, deliberately put more ropes to tie the sinner, and then shouted: You asked to die for your father, and the emperor has agreed. You will be punished. But the knife and axe are ruthless. Be careful and check whether you are dead enough. Besides, as a child, you don't know how to die for your father. Someone must be teaching you. What's this man's name? If you have any regrets, we can reconsider. ? Ji Yi replied:? Although I am a child, I don't know if beheading is terrible. It's just that when I look around, my younger brothers are still young, and only I am the oldest. I can't bear to see my father executed and live alone in the world. So I'm in charge alone, interfering with royal laws. I really want to die for my dad now. Isn't this a fact? How can I get someone to teach me? Knowing that intimidation could not make him yield, Cai Fadu changed his gentle face and said to him: In fact, the emperor already knows that your father is innocent and should let him go. I think you are radiant, smart and handsome. You are such a good boy. If you want to change the statement that you died on behalf of your father now, maybe you are both fine. Why did you spend such a good time dying for nothing? Ji Yi replied:? Even worms know to cherish their own lives. What about people? I don't want to die, but my father will be punished by criminal law if he is impeached, so I just want to sacrifice myself to save my father's life. ? When Ji Zhigang was detained, the prison guards put all the shackles on him according to the regulations. Cai Fadu felt sorry for him, so he ordered him to take down two instruments of torture and replace them with a lighter one. Ji Yi refused, saying: I asked to die instead of my father, that is, death row. How can death row inmates subtract instruments of torture? He didn't reduce those instruments of torture. Cai Fadu told these things to the emperor, who pardoned their father and son. Later, Yin of Danyang collected Ji Yi's deeds when he was taken in by Ting Wei and his usual good deeds in the village, and wanted to recommend him as a model of filial piety at the beginning of the year. Ji yi said:? Strange, Wang Yin! How can you treat me like this? It is a common truth that when a father is in trouble, his son dies to save him. If I have the face to be a model of filial piety, then I will use my father to change my reputation. What a pity! ? He didn't agree to do so, so the matter stopped there. These are all examples of dutiful sons dying for their loved ones.