Friendship is more important, or making money?

At the end of each year, some of my friends who are dance teachers will complain, because at the end of the year, many companies' annual meetings are coming, and many people look for their completed dance programs.

Actually, you should be happy Teaching a finished dance is not cheap. You can earn more money if you are busy at the end of the year. Why are you complaining?

"Who is not happy to make money, but many friends ask me to rehearse and don't give money. It's a waste of time to agree to these jobs and refuse them. They say that you have no human feelings and only recognize money. "

It's really hard to make so many friends. After all, even simple dancing has a cost. Is friendship important? Or is it important to make money? If you ask me, this is not a problem at all, because those "friends" who always want you to help for free are not friends at all. A true friend won't embarrass you like this, but he always has the cheek to bother you. In his eyes, there is no heavy friendship between you.

Don't worry, not a close friend. If you don't want to help, you politely refuse. After all, this is your livelihood. If everyone you know comes to you for free, how can you get rich and reach the peak of your life?

In fact, some people's thinking is really strange, and they always feel that there is no cost without labor paid in kind.

If you open a clothing store, he will give you money to buy a dress. If you open a restaurant, he will pay for dinner at your place.

Because they know that all your efforts are clearly marked costs, they can see them.

But when you make a design, come up with a plan, write a manuscript and type a few lines of code, they feel so simple, isn't it easy?

Why pay?

Why pay? What did you say?/Sorry? Why don't you raise this hand yourself?

I had dinner with a partner the other day. He said that he often met such people, probably because he was so capable. He has worked in three companies, and all three projects are excellent. He knows how to sell products and do marketing, so many people will come to him for help. The more people ask him for help, the greater the chance of meeting those strangers.

Once, a man I met after drinking wanted him to help me make the company's future development plan. Another person said, anyway, all you have to do is use your head and help me.

He said: "I didn't reply to the news of being asked for help in this way. The company's development plan includes many things. He thinks it's simple. If you want to do it, you must make a detailed plan. It also costs a lot of money to find a specialized planning company. I really don't have time to do this kind of thing. If you really want to do it seriously, then talk about the price before doing anything. "

It's not that I haven't helped such people. He said someone wanted to do video editing and asked him for help. He deliberately asked colleagues in the company's visual department to stay up late to edit a version, and told the other party that they didn't have to pay, just invited colleagues to dinner. As a result, the other party disappeared with the video. He also said that it would be a breeze to invite them to dinner for this small favor.

This is really not a small favor. Why do people do things for nothing? Didn't they spend money on designing computers? Don't you have to pay tuition to learn design? Is the time spent worth it?

What's even more exasperating is that the other party said that people didn't do well and couldn't use it at all, but one day my little friend went to his company and saw that he had just given a lecture with a video edited by his little brother.

I really want to grab his collar and ask him.

Did you do well? How many meals is it worth?

The little friend is a little excited and a little angry. He lit up the screen of his mobile phone and showed it to me: "How can I hear such a person?" Do not return. Look at others. If you see the transfer record, ask me for help. Regardless of the price, pay a deposit first, and he can accept me before doing it. Of course, I care about this kind of thing, and I don't have much money, but it is people's respect for my work. "

Yes, paying workers is the minimum respect.

Actually, there are some things. Don't ask people if they know Baidu. Don't brush your face if you can spend money.

No matter how good a friend is, he should also consider the problem from the other side's point of view. Everyone is busy. Everyone works for anyone, but there is no money for you.

I also thought that a classmate who was studying in Korea once told me that she knew a girl and wanted her to help her buy cosmetics. Speaking of purchasing cosmetics, the other party changed his tone again. How does she collect money for this little favor?

I see. I really want to pull it out and beat it up first. The classmate didn't explain much, and directly replied to her: "No way, the daily living expenses are all purchasing fees." "She is not my best friend. I can run as many times as I want. She said she was busy. I went to a shopping mall and walked for more than two hours. "

Saying so many things like "simple", "don't need too much trouble" and "don't need too much time" are all defined by yourself. If it is really easy to do, why not just find someone else to do it? Anyway, it's as simple as that, and it doesn't cost much.

Do you think it's really just a pen to ask a copywriter friend to write a few paragraphs?

Do you think asking a design friend to do visual design is really just moving the mouse?

Do you think you really just press the shutter when you ask your photographer friend to take pictures?

Do you think that inviting illustrators to draw illustrations is really just to adjust colors?

......

Don't take it for granted, what you think is just what you think.

Those who still want us to do things for free, promote products for free, do beauty, plan, consult and even tattoo eyebrows for free, forget it.

Don't always try to save money to trouble your friends, because free is actually the most expensive. You brush your face and ask someone to help you. What should I do if people don't do well? You are too embarrassed to ask for revision and help you in vain. Why are you so embarrassed to ask questions?

Finally, if you have problems with your friends, you can't even help them. Friends also think that you are pushing your luck if you don't give money.

Why bother? Not worth it.

If you don't let the other party know the quotation clearly, you can accept it and do it yourself. One thing, it is the most direct and convenient to change into a pure employment relationship.

No moral kidnapping, no emotional consumption, this is the consciousness of making friends.

It's not embarrassing to talk about money and interests on your own initiative. Embarrassed, you want me to pose in various positions, so that I can resist tearing and exercise, but you don't talk about money.

In fact, as long as the money is in place, any posture can be used.

Is this a lack of human feelings in the commercial society?

No, it's the most basic etiquette of modern adults, and it doesn't cause trouble to others.

Of course, the people who should help will also help.

But some people, oh, not necessarily.

This is a double standard.

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