What made you decide to give up someone who has had a secret crush for a long time?

Because I feel hopeless. It's really hard to give up someone who has a secret crush for a long time. From initial expectation to habit, and then give up slowly. It will take a long time. Secret love may be experienced by everyone, but it rarely turns out to be true. Secret love is usually when we are young again. Secret love is beautiful and promising, and we are looking forward to it. From the beginning, I liked it and later became a habit, but giving up a secret love may be because we confessed, but the other party disagreed. Maybe we insisted, but we never saw hope. It seems that the other party has a crush, so we have to give up the crush.

Let me give up the person I secretly love, because pursuing him for a long time has no result. I think a secret love will eventually become a secret love, because you are too kind to that person. Many people will find that you actually like him. Once the other person knows, it may be difficult to develop this secret love. Once the other person knows, it is not a secret love. If the other person likes you, he will come back to pursue you. If the other person doesn't like you, he will always be with you. Let me give up my secret crush because he always has a girl in his heart. I only liked him for a long time, but he never accepted it. In the end, it became a fruitless love. There are fewer people who have a secret crush. Generally, people who have a long secret love are people with strong willpower. Many people like it for several years, but in the end, they find another boy to marry or have their own children. Secret love is a beautiful memory of youth. If you really like it, you'd better not have a crush. I think it's better to express love or communicate with each other actively to cultivate the feelings between two people.

Secret love is a beautiful memory, but the result of secret love is often unsatisfactory and will bring great harm.