Why does the mother-in-law force her daughter-in-law to have a second child?

In order to get more 1 10,000, the mother-in-law forced her daughter-in-law to have a second child.

Recently, some netizens posted on the forum:

In order to get one more head, my husband's family wants me to have a second child, and it should be born before 19! When the child 10 month, she weaned me and prepared to have a second child. My husband and mother-in-law both have lumbar disc herniation, and my mother-in-law has never held it. Husband occasionally hugs them when he goes out, and rarely goes out! I went out to play during the holidays the other day. My father-in-law and I have been holding him. It's no use bringing him back because of his backache and bad road.

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Start your own business before marriage, stop doing it in order to protect the baby, and then take care of the children at home. I invited my aunt for four months. The child is skinny, and the mother who takes care of the baby alone should have experienced the last meal. Now my stomach trouble has also come out, and my back hurts. The one who used to hold her thin arms is muscular. I wanted to do business after the new year. After all, it's hard to take money from my husband's family. Want to go out to travel, say, "It's free to go out to play." If I had money, I wouldn't be said so. I spent almost all the money I had saved before starting a business!

I just want to do my own thing and spend my own money. I really don't want to have a second child. I thought I would ask my mother to take care of my business children and pay 4500 a month. My mother said that the child is too heavy for a day, so I don't trust my aunt. I have to take it with me to do business in the future.

The child can walk, and I never care if he can walk. My mother-in-law will feel distressed and tired after walking for a few minutes, so I can only pick her up. My mother-in-law and her husband are doing business together in the market and can't take care of the children. Father-in-law has something to do! Some people say that I can do business with my husband so that my children can be taken care of and have a second child, but I want to say that every family is different. Even if you are a cow and a horse, you just get a fixed salary and have your own favorite career. Isn't it bad to have an extra income at home and the money is my own?

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I'm really tired of having a second child. Isn't it good to have only one child? I really don't want it now, but giving me pressure every day makes me really depressed! I have a stomachache every day, and the hospital won't let me go, saying that it's not good to have a check-up during pregnancy, and my face is getting whiter every day! My husband is a mother-in-law, but he still has his own opinions. He can't manage big things by himself, and his mother-in-law is also very good. I feel lucky as long as I don't force me to have a second child. But my husband and mother-in-law don't help with the children, and I can't work and hold the children at a young age. I feel that my future is dark, I have married a fake husband, and I am full of energy when I play ball. I don't know if my low back pain is fake or make a mountain out of a molehill.

Square compensation really doesn't matter to me. Everyone has a share. I didn't say to have one more suite. I will give it to the children in the future. I won't give you another set. If I don't give birth to them, I will become a useless woman. "People under the eaves have to bow their heads!" No one in my husband's family can understand my heart. The compensation for demolition occupied their hearts. They have said many times that they don't want children, and they all say that they want two anyway. Now they will lose money if they don't have children, but I really don't want to have a child.

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I really don't want to have a second child, even if I want to divorce me, I will admit it! No matter how good the husband's family is, it's really ... (A husband's family who doesn't care about money can really burn high incense), which is why I don't do business with my husband. Women must stand on their own feet! ! !

After the post was issued, some netizens thought it was not easy to raise children and invested more money and energy than this demolition fund.

Lan_Sam: Please respect women's rights as human beings. She can choose not to have children, and she has the right to choose not to have children. It's good to have money, but raising children can't be solved in one sentence!

77? A-guang: Not earning 100w. It costs more than 100 W to raise a child!

Some mothers even turned on the spit mode:

Kou Shihezi: The second child is almost three months old, and it's tiring to take care of the children, so everyone inside knows that it's the same for men to have one child or two or three children, regardless.

Alina: I want a second child, too, but I still have to proceed from the actual situation. First, there is no patience to take care of children. Second, I have financial strength. If you give me 6.5438+0 million yuan, I will definitely not have a second child, because the money can't afford to raise a child at all. My son is seven years old now, and the kindergarten costs 9000 yuan a semester. Coupled with buy buy, a toy for eating, drinking and having fun, it is conservatively estimated that at present, the annual expenses of a child alone need about 50,000 yuan, which is the least. My husband calculated that a child's annual expenses need 70,000 to 80,000 yuan, so 654.38+0,000 yuan can only be used for children's primary school graduation at most. The landlord is quite opinionated, I support you!

Some netizens also believe that more and more families have a second child, and the landlord may want to have it in two years.

Look at the world: how much can a child get? If you get more points, you can consider life. Now, after all, it is a world with a second child. If you think again in a few years, or win the lottery unexpectedly, you will have reason to have children. At that time, the white eyes and resentment will be heavier. A family of two is not much. Your problem is to make it clear before you are born, your physical condition, all aspects of your child. It's hard to take care of children, but other things can't give you happiness.