be predestined/destined

Many people have a sense of pride when they are young, and my life is not up to me. However, after being beaten by society, pride turned into discouragement, and naturally I had to believe the fate. Of course, it doesn't mean that hard work is useless. It's just that many times you don't have to work hard to be Ma Yun and Ma Hua Teng. As many masters have said, how much money a person can have in this life, how big an official he can be, and what kind of daughter-in-law he will marry are all decided at birth. Someone will jump out and say, no! Do people with the same eight characters live the same life? I think Destiny is similar to the barrel theory. Your fortune, career, marriage and wealth can all be regarded as buckets. How much you can get in the end depends on your lowest board. This is that everyone is born to die, with the same eight characters, the same height and the same gap. In addition, there are factors that affect you. You can fill in your shortcomings here and increase the amount of things you get. For example, two children with the same eight characters, one is poor in the countryside and the other is rich in the second generation, were born in different environments, so even if the development track is the same, their height is different. In ancient times, there were relatively few things that affected people, so at the age of three, there were basically not too many variables or mistakes in the calculation of eight characters. There are too many factors affecting people in this social change now, even if it is destiny takes a hand, it can be different. Your own efforts can also change "destiny takes a hand". So, after reading this reply, I hope you can face up to the words "destiny takes a hand". Many things cannot be changed by nature. Maybe your parents can't give you a good life, maybe you are born with some shortcomings, maybe you are doomed to be unable to engage in the industry you love. These doomed factors will put a lot of restrictions on you, so that you can't be what you want to be, but don't feel sorry for yourself. Plain is the true meaning of life.